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Posted by Galennt on September 17, 2006, at 18:50:59
In reply to Re: Adding to this thread once again..., posted by pinkpink on September 16, 2006, at 9:47:42
pinkpink-
It is better to increase a low to medium dose of the first medication than add a second. At 150mgs you have plenty of room before needing to consider augmentation.
Good luck,
gt
Posted by corafree on September 18, 2006, at 20:19:18
In reply to Re: Anyone had success on Effexor XR? » tedhazzard, posted by dancing fool on September 12, 2006, at 9:44:49
Okay here's my story. Effexor-XR saved me prob' 3-4 times. No side effects. No withdrawal effects. (I know ... I'm weird I guess.) I decided I no longer wished to take it because I wanted my emotions back. So that's my story and I'm sticking to it.(?) I feel bad many peeps have so much trouble. Because I didn't have any bad side effects, it doesn't mean the drug isn't a complicated one ... I think it is. That may be another reason I discontinued it, forever.
bestwishes, cf
Posted by pinkpink on September 18, 2006, at 20:47:48
In reply to Re: Anyone had success on Effexor XR?, posted by corafree on September 18, 2006, at 20:19:18
Thanks GT,Colleen, Corafree for the responses...I've been taking 4000 units/day of omega 3 fish oil and i'm going to doc tomorrow to get testosterone inject to get the "well-being" hormone...yes, I'm a woman over 50...I've had one other injection back in January and I felt really good for a long time...until the middle of August when new job, new environment, new people, with lots of paperwork and involvement (public school) I thought about resigning this past week but now I think I can do it a while longer, maybe till the end of the school year...who knows? Life is more than a job/career and I've got grandkids I need to be around for...Effexor saved me more than once, so I can't knock it...it's better than the depths of depressio/anxiety (paralysis) love to all who are dealing with this....later, pink
Posted by Attitude on September 18, 2006, at 22:19:41
In reply to Re: Anyone had success on Effexor XR? » corafree, posted by pinkpink on September 18, 2006, at 20:47:48
I spoke with my psych about the 225mg dosage as opposed to the lower dosage. At the higher dosage, the seretonin and norepenephrine levels are affected. At the higher dosage, the Effexor is, in fact, acting as 2 meds. I would up my dosage before adding other variables to your experiment.
Posted by pinkpink on September 19, 2006, at 18:12:45
In reply to Re: Up dosage of Effexor, posted by Attitude on September 18, 2006, at 22:19:41
Thanks attitude, I am willing to consider that as well....Thanks for the info. I don't have a psych, just an OB-GYN who helped me through "the change" but he's up on things of this nature...Pink
Posted by vanni on September 20, 2006, at 10:43:53
In reply to Anyone had success on Effexor XR? , posted by jp on October 24, 1999, at 14:59:14
Has anyone experienced hives all over their body from taking EffexorXR? I have been on EffexorXR (in the morning) and trazadone (at night) for about 5 and a half months. In the last 10 days I have been waking up every morning with hives. They go away by the afternoon. Antihistamines help some. This all may be totally unrelated to the meds but the cyclical nature makes me wonder. I will see my GP again today and let her know the hives have not gone away!
Vanni
Posted by LC on September 25, 2006, at 14:01:16
In reply to Re: Up dosage of Effexor, posted by Attitude on September 18, 2006, at 22:19:41
I have been on Effexor for 8 days-just increased my dosage to 75 mg two days ago to treat GAD (Generalized Anxiety Disorder). Have been having tingling in my head, excessive sweating and anxiety symptoms. Was on Lexapro for GAD for a year with excess weight gain and decreased libido but none of these other side effects. Did anyone have these symptoms when they started taking this med and, if so, did they go away or did you have to change meds? Thanks for any info you can provide.
Posted by Attitude on September 25, 2006, at 22:12:24
In reply to Re: Anxiety Sweating, Etc. with Effexor, posted by LC on September 25, 2006, at 14:01:16
These are side-effects that I had (the sleeplessness, sweating, nausea, etc)...some of them go away and others do not. I think it depends on the individual. I definitely sweat more, I have to drink a lot of water and make sure I have enough salt in my system at times. This is not something that has gone away for me. It takes me longer to climax during sex (most do this). As far as the anxiety goes, this is the medication that has helped me the most. I was so happy to find this stuff, I've been looking for the right one for over a decade. My sister has been diagnosed with GAD, as well, and has been so glad to get past all of the initial side effects b/c it has helped her tremendously. The side effects suck, but will diminish. It makes sense that your anxiety increases if you're worring about the meds side effects, as well as what they have been designed to do. Hang in there. It may very well be worth it to you. I'm glad I did.
Posted by shelby11 on September 26, 2006, at 10:15:46
In reply to Anyone had success on Effexor XR? , posted by jp on October 24, 1999, at 14:59:14
I have been taking effexor XR for about three months for anxiety.I have a new DR and he prescribed this medicine knowing very little about me, it was my first appointment with him. I did not know about withdrawl symptoms until I started reading all of these messages. I think this mediceine works fine, I don't obsess as much and seem to be calmer, but at what expense. I don't want to take it anymore but I don't want to go through withdrawl! How long do you have to be taking this stuff to have the bad symptoms of withdrawl?
Posted by LC on September 26, 2006, at 12:19:12
In reply to Re: Anxiety Sweating, Etc. with Effexor, posted by Attitude on September 25, 2006, at 22:12:24
Thank you for the encouragement. Can you tell me if you are on the XR or regular Effexor? I ask because I hear the regular only lasts for a short time and is usually given 2-3 times a day vs the XR which is once a day. I had been taking it at night and had horrible sweats and during the day terrible anxiety but I changed last night and didn't take it at night and took it in the morning instead. I had no sweats last night and no anxiety this AM but feel like some of the anxiety may be coming on. Could it be that I am having withdrawal symptoms because I am on the regular?
Posted by Frankie2120 on September 27, 2006, at 9:45:34
In reply to Re: Anxiety Sweating, Etc. with Effexor, posted by LC on September 26, 2006, at 12:19:12
I have been on Effexor XR for 6 weeks now starting out at 37.5 for a week... then to 75... now i've been at 150 for 4 weeks now... I was also on Laxepro for 2 years before this. I started noticeing the positive effects of this drug after about 5 weeks... I used to smoke all the time at work... before i go out and talk to people... before a meeting... before lunch.. after... Not even kidding it was the strangest thing in the world but the cravings completely went away and i havn't had a smoke in 2 weeks now and don't even care... I also used to have a real problem with people being around me when i was working out or even in crowded places... doesn't bother me one bit now... when i stopped with the laxepro some of my nervous habits came back (like picking at the eyebrows) but that has since calmed down (although now they are very thin again haha)... The side effects that I noticed when starting was I would get extremely tired... That has since gone away... I'm always hot no matter what so i really didn't notice the sweating. The one side effect that did stay with me though is the ringing in my ears... I only notice it when i think about it but it's always there... not too loud but there... completely tolerable though because of the incredible way this medicine has helped me with social anxiety and the added bonous of the smoking... It's really helping with the depression as well... I actually have a follow up visit with my doctor today and a few more questions i'm going to ask... I'll let u know if i hear anything more interesting....
I'm 28 years old... a project engineer and i love to go out... I have been doing well at things before but there always was some kind of internal struggle in my mind... I seriously feel like I'm awake competely for the first time in years....
ok was that long enough.. haha... so procrastinateing at work cause i'm hungry and want to eat lunch... :)
Good luck....
Posted by gabbie on September 27, 2006, at 9:53:56
In reply to Anyone had success on Effexor XR? , posted by jp on October 24, 1999, at 14:59:14
Hi. I just wanted to say my opinion before I go to work because I found this bulletin/writing area yesterday morning and I was so glad to find it because it made me think that there was hope for what's going on in my life. I have had anxiety for about 2 years now, and altough that may not be as long as other people, it still has made a horrible impact on my life. It's not as bad as it was two years ago when it first started, but I still can't stand the way I get. I cry for no reason... little things bother me for long hours, possible days. My chest tightens and I seem to get tense like something bad is going to happen.. just because of the thoughts that take over my mind. I know all of my problems are in my head and I do not have a chemical imbalance, but it's still hard to just quit thinking the way I have. Also, my life is pretty good so it sucks that I have to feel like this and be afraid to meet new people or do things regularly. I was on lexapro for 2 weeks and I stopped taking that because it was just something to help me out for a Florida trip I was taking... not long enough to see if it worked, but then I went to therapy and seemed A LOT BETTER. Then something happened this past year and I keep falling into a worse and worse anxiety/depressed feeling. Sometimes it's worse than others, but for the most part it sucks. I was on Effexor and it was a month and two weeks and I didn't really feel anything different so I stopped taking it. I was also on Zoloft for 2 weeks and that made me feel worse than I had been feeling so I called that quits. Effexor seemed to have my good days and bad days in the beginning, I yawned a lot and lost weight... which was a good thing. I read everything people were writing on here and some people made me so happy because I am going to the doctors soon to try Effexor again. I didn't wait it out long enough. I want to see if this could work for me.
To all of you who have been saying positive things/effects... thank you so much!
And to all you people who were complaining about how withdrawl sucked... that's how it works. Obviously if you are on something for so long that helps you take control of your life and feel better than before.. getting off of it is going to suck. And to you who were just saying how it's stupid to take medicine for things that bother you in life... you should just stick it out and wait. We have been waiting a long time and nothing seems to work! These people probably don't know how sad it can be to cry randomly and not want to go out and do things normally.
Posted by pinkpink on September 27, 2006, at 18:11:42
In reply to Re: Anyone had success on Effexor XR?, posted by gabbie on September 27, 2006, at 9:53:56
> Hi. I just wanted to say my opinion before I go to work because I found this bulletin/writing area yesterday morning and I was so glad to find it because it made me think that there was hope for what's going on in my life. I have had anxiety for about 2 years now, and altough that may not be as long as other people, it still has made a horrible impact on my life. It's not as bad as it was two years ago when it first started, but I still can't stand the way I get. I cry for no reason... little things bother me for long hours, possible days. My chest tightens and I seem to get tense like something bad is going to happen.. just because of the thoughts that take over my mind. I know all of my problems are in my head and I do not have a chemical imbalance, but it's still hard to just quit thinking the way I have. Also, my life is pretty good so it sucks that I have to feel like this and be afraid to meet new people or do things regularly. I was on lexapro for 2 weeks and I stopped taking that because it was just something to help me out for a Florida trip I was taking... not long enough to see if it worked, but then I went to therapy and seemed A LOT BETTER. Then something happened this past year and I keep falling into a worse and worse anxiety/depressed feeling. Sometimes it's worse than others, but for the most part it sucks. I was on Effexor and it was a month and two weeks and I didn't really feel anything different so I stopped taking it. I was also on Zoloft for 2 weeks and that made me feel worse than I had been feeling so I called that quits. Effexor seemed to have my good days and bad days in the beginning, I yawned a lot and lost weight... which was a good thing. I read everything people were writing on here and some people made me so happy because I am going to the doctors soon to try Effexor again. I didn't wait it out long enough. I want to see if this could work for me.
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> And to all you people who were complaining about how withdrawl sucked... that's how it works. Obviously if you are on something for so long that helps you take control of your life and feel better than before.. getting off of it is going to suck. And to you who were just saying how it's stupid to take medicine for things that bother you in life... you should just stick it out and wait. We have been waiting a long time and nothing seems to work! These people probably don't know how sad it can be to cry randomly and not want to go out and do things normally.Hi Gabbie,
My doc says that these conditions are the direct result of heredity...think about your parents,grandparents, etc. who may have been disposed to anxiety/depression....I can definetly see where it came from in my family...the hardest thing is to accept that you can't do a damn thing about it except to choose to save yourself from the agony that they endured...I say life is too short(or long) to be miserable...give the Effexor TIME and maybe even increase your dose...I was on 150mg extended release for two or three years...I have recently had lots of changes in my life, job, family,etc. and the dose I was on was not able to override those negative perceptions that I was having about everything...My doc upped the dose to 300mg and just two days later..I'm feeling lots better..I'm just a pretty normal person with lots of blessings, but I was not able to feel them...Hey, our brains are different, but so what? We have to do what we can to get us back into the game of life...Love, pink
Posted by gabbie on September 27, 2006, at 21:15:41
In reply to Re: Anyone had success on Effexor XR?, posted by pinkpink on September 27, 2006, at 18:11:42
> > Hi. I just wanted to say my opinion before I go to work because I found this bulletin/writing area yesterday morning and I was so glad to find it because it made me think that there was hope for what's going on in my life. I have had anxiety for about 2 years now, and altough that may not be as long as other people, it still has made a horrible impact on my life. It's not as bad as it was two years ago when it first started, but I still can't stand the way I get. I cry for no reason... little things bother me for long hours, possible days. My chest tightens and I seem to get tense like something bad is going to happen.. just because of the thoughts that take over my mind. I know all of my problems are in my head and I do not have a chemical imbalance, but it's still hard to just quit thinking the way I have. Also, my life is pretty good so it sucks that I have to feel like this and be afraid to meet new people or do things regularly. I was on lexapro for 2 weeks and I stopped taking that because it was just something to help me out for a Florida trip I was taking... not long enough to see if it worked, but then I went to therapy and seemed A LOT BETTER. Then something happened this past year and I keep falling into a worse and worse anxiety/depressed feeling. Sometimes it's worse than others, but for the most part it sucks. I was on Effexor and it was a month and two weeks and I didn't really feel anything different so I stopped taking it. I was also on Zoloft for 2 weeks and that made me feel worse than I had been feeling so I called that quits. Effexor seemed to have my good days and bad days in the beginning, I yawned a lot and lost weight... which was a good thing. I read everything people were writing on here and some people made me so happy because I am going to the doctors soon to try Effexor again. I didn't wait it out long enough. I want to see if this could work for me.
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> > And to all you people who were complaining about how withdrawl sucked... that's how it works. Obviously if you are on something for so long that helps you take control of your life and feel better than before.. getting off of it is going to suck. And to you who were just saying how it's stupid to take medicine for things that bother you in life... you should just stick it out and wait. We have been waiting a long time and nothing seems to work! These people probably don't know how sad it can be to cry randomly and not want to go out and do things normally.
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> My doc says that these conditions are the direct result of heredity...think about your parents,grandparents, etc. who may have been disposed to anxiety/depression....I can definetly see where it came from in my family...the hardest thing is to accept that you can't do a damn thing about it except to choose to save yourself from the agony that they endured...I say life is too short(or long) to be miserable...give the Effexor TIME and maybe even increase your dose...I was on 150mg extended release for two or three years...I have recently had lots of changes in my life, job, family,etc. and the dose I was on was not able to override those negative perceptions that I was having about everything...My doc upped the dose to 300mg and just two days later..I'm feeling lots better..I'm just a pretty normal person with lots of blessings, but I was not able to feel them...Hey, our brains are different, but so what? We have to do what we can to get us back into the game of life...Love, pink
- I like hearing how it works for people. I know that my dad gets bad anxiety occasionally, but I am sure that it's not a chemical, just something in our brains maybe. I get really irritated easily and mad over dumb things because I obsess about bad things instead of looking at how wonderful my life is. I am blessed too, but for some reason can't always let that overcome my anxiety. I know that I am not this horrible person that I feel I am... I just want to get back to being myself and happy. Thank you for reading and posting back.. it means a lot to know it worked for you. I don't want to have to get to such a high dose because i'm not horribly bad, but just a little boost of feeling better will hopefully make such a greater impact on me and the way things are going. My mood is taken out on my boyfriend, my family, and friends. I just want it to go away.
Posted by gabbie on September 28, 2006, at 6:35:43
In reply to Anyone had success on Effexor XR? , posted by jp on October 24, 1999, at 14:59:14
Ah. I am calling the doctor today to see I can get in today or sometime this weekend. I get nervous every time I go to talk to him about my anxiety. I havn't had to in a while, but I can't take this. I get really freaked out because I constantly scare myself into thinking I shouldn't use medication (which leads me to believe maybe I need it), but I have some questions that I am going to ask him and I thought I would ask you guys first. I do not have HORRIBLE depression or anxiety. I mean my head gets very twisted up and my chest gets tight occasionally and some days I cry badly over something so small and for the most part, everday, everything dumb or that isn't my business or that maybe I don't even really care about, but my head makes me think I do, I get really pissed off. Just for no reason. And not to seem like I am a loner, but other than my boyfriend... I don't really hang out with people. My two best friends who have been there for me through this all both go to college, and one has college and a job so I hardly see them. I go out once in a while, but that's when I force myself that people will actually like me. I think I am just getting deeper into insecurity. I mean I am secure for the most part, but I can't seem to let that sink into my head. I can't let anything positive sink into my brain. I get confused a lot... one minute I will say something and I KNOW that is how I feel about something, but I scare myself and second think it and then tell myself that isn't how I feel. And that it's this long process of getting worried that I'm going crazy. It sounds bad, but I mean I have been handling it for two years... it's just I can't take pretending that eventually it's just gonna go away. I have been wanting to go back to therapy, because talking to someone and having them tell me EXACTLY what the hell is going on, makes me understand and feel more safe and content. That's all I want... to be content. But reading some of these posts scares the sh*t out of me. I mean I DO NOT want to keep changing medications, I mean if this doesn't work, maybe I'll try something else, but if that doesn't... straight to therapy again unless my head stops freaking out. And I also get freaked out because I make myself think that what everyone is writing, is going to happen to me. Even though I KNOW I alread have taken it before for a month and two weeks and the only side affect I had was yawning and losing weight, and I believe I still felt nervous (and that i really would like to go away because i always feel nervous). But I'm hoping this all passes and it kicks in, but I am fearing maybe I am not qualafied to be on medication... it seems everyone else REALLY has the depression sever and the anxiety the same... so maybe because mine seems minor compared to everyone else... I should just shut up.
Posted by Frankie2120 on September 28, 2006, at 9:40:48
In reply to Re: Anyone had success on Effexor XR?, posted by gabbie on September 28, 2006, at 6:35:43
Even when i took laxepro for the first time i started feeling better after like 4 months so i stopped taking it... then all the stupid depression started comming back... (like you said crying for no reason)... trust me if you saw me you wouldn't think i would be someone to cry)... :) So going back to my doctor he told me that you have to take it for at least 13 months to get things balanced.... The laxepro did make me yhan alot at first too... however it did nothing for my social anxiety... and like you my life is really good... i have a great job and a great faimly and a ton of fun going out.. .however everything inside of me was like a struggle... and i knew that wasn't me... I would get anxieties over the stupidest things.... Try the Effexor XR... I'm 28 years old 6 foot about 205 pounds of all muscle... (besides the point just trying to give you a size to my dosage)... and my doctor started me out at 37.5 for a week... then 75 for a week... then leveling out at 150 where i am now.... It's been about 6 weeks.... I wasn't feeling anything for the first 4 weeks but getting real tired and I started getting a low ringing in my ears... but i kid you not right at the beginning of the 5th week it was like someone flipped a switch in my head and it was like I was a wake for the first time... I used to have anxieties about talking on the phone cause i worried everyone was listening to me... gone... at the gym i hated people around me cause i felt like they all were watching me... (rediculous i know)... but that's gone... i used to feel the need to smoke all the time at work... like once an hour... Now i havn't even smoked in the past two weeks... that was an unexpected effect that just sort of happened.... If you're going to try somthing try the Effexor XR... There is nothing wrong with taking medication to get your head going right... and like everyone else sais give it time... it may take 2 weeks... it may take 2 months... everyone's head is different... and don't wake up every day in the beginning trying to notice if you feel different... Trust me when this stuff starts working for you you will know it like i did... The being tired all the time was the most annoying side affect being that i'm such an active person... however i stuck through it and it went away... you may not even experience it... but if you do keep with it and don't complain like i read alot of people doing on here... The benifits far outweigh a few side affects that go away after a week or two...
and don't ever feel bad about writing long messages... I love reading about other people's experiences with depression and anxiety and getting help and different things people go thorugh... Plus it's a great way for me to kill some time at work when i feel like taking a break... haha....
Try the Effexor XR... Talk to your doctor about it... that's what the doctor is there for... and don't feel weird in doing so... I did at first two... even before writing me a 6 month perscription he just gave me 8 weeks of sample packs so i could take it... get used to it... and then yesterday i just went back to discuss how i was feeling and if it would be a benifit to continue taking the effexor.... and yes it is....
So if it is right fo your... try it... and give it time to work... :)
Ok i'll go back to work now...
FRANKIE
Posted by gabbie on September 28, 2006, at 9:49:18
In reply to Re: Anyone had success on Effexor XR?, posted by Frankie2120 on September 28, 2006, at 9:40:48
frankie
you made me feel very hopeful right now. i was getting freaked out from all these negative things people were saying... but i called the doctor today and i'm going tomorrow to talk to him. i was already on effexor xr and i didn't see a different, i mean one day i thought i was alright, the next nothing... but i'm impatient with this anxiety so i don't think i gave it enough time to tell, i guess once the month and 2 week mark showed up and i didn't feel anything... i wasn't sure. for the most part it seems like people really like effexor and it works. i mean i don't know if it will for me, because it seemed it wasn't after the month and 2 weeks, but i'm gonna try it again and stick it out for 2 months maybe a little more and hopefully i will see results, i'm scared to wait that long for a feeling of contentness, but i guess i have to be patient... and i love writing long crap about anything. it makes me feel better to know i got everything off my chest and makes me think somebody will read it and agree with me.
and everytime i ask my doctor stuff he seems to not really know stuff about the medication, but i'm gonna ask good questions tomorrow so hopefully we can figure this out.
thank you again.
Posted by gabbie on September 28, 2006, at 9:52:10
In reply to Re: Anyone had success on Effexor XR?, posted by gabbie on September 28, 2006, at 9:49:18
also i am the same way with things... i go places and i feel like everyone is looking at me and i get so nervous... even if people are or aren't looking... it never bothered me before the anxiety, and now it's like a habit. i don't like being in places with a bunch of people i don't know. and i have a hard time talking to people online because it doesn't give me a chance to really know how i'll feel around them so my first feeling is anxiety which leads to being scared to talk to these people ever... it's horrible. i hate the computer because of it.
Posted by Frankie2120 on September 28, 2006, at 9:59:00
In reply to Re: Anyone had success on Effexor XR?, posted by gabbie on September 28, 2006, at 6:35:43
and one more thing... my depression and anxiety is just like you described... I felt like reading alot of other people's posts that i shouldn't even be in here cause other's seem to have it wayyy worse than i do... however mine is bad enough to affect my mind in my every day life enough that its driving me nutts and that's enough for me to have wanted to get help... so a little or alot it's deifnilty a problem that should be dealt with and that CAN be dealt with....
Did you ever see that mcdonalds commercial where the dude is drinking coffee and all the sudden he realizes he's married and has been for like 5 years and never realized it... haha... well the laxepro took care of my depression wich was great... but the Effexor XR did that and took care of the social anxiety... (the loner feeling) and the constant thinking in your head and talking your self out of things... so back to the commercial... I have this great life and i'm like that dude that drank the mcdonalds coffee cause now i feel like I'm awake in it finally.... :) so i feel you should definilty give it a try... and think positive about it... negative thoughts of anykind even about anything... keep them out of your head... :) they are no good for anything... :)
ok so putting off doing work again.... haha...
Posted by Frankie2120 on September 28, 2006, at 10:20:38
In reply to Re: Anyone had success on Effexor XR?, posted by gabbie on September 28, 2006, at 9:52:10
I know exactly wht you mean about feeling like people are looking at you... trust me... I love going to the gym and it used to drive me nutttsss... I'd be lifting and someone would be lifting next to me and i would be so fixated on thinking that they were watching me... when they so were not... haha... rediculous i know but that's how we feel... I know what you mean... It's been i just looked at my callander 7 weeks since i started taking at the max does of 150mg a day.. two small lil pills... no big deal at all... another thing that's important to take is a multivitamin every day... just take it with your medication... My doctor stressed that this is very good for the body and mind if you're not already taking one...
Starting the effexor xr was like a rollercoaster at first... there definitly were up's... and downs... there was actually some increased anxiety at times... (not all that much) but i had some but that went away.. i just told my self that it was a side effect and it will go away cause other's had it too... but like i said it was like a switch after like 4-5 weeks... i mean i was a smoker for like 6 years... a pack a day... and it was so strange when all the sudden i had no urge to smoke anymore... and i go out alot in the city.. and i never thought i could be out drinking and not want to smoke... but i don't even want one then.. it's so strange... just gone... I'll take it though.. better for my body and saves me 5 dollars a day... haha... :)
ok almost lunch time... (i was out last night and I so don't feel like doing work today... haha..) a lil more about me i'm a project engineer and i have my own office... so it looks like i'm in here doing work... but i'm really just makeing sure the trees outside don't go anywhere..... and like you if you saw me you'd so not think that i was someone with depression and anxiety problems... when i sometimes talk about it with my friends they are so stunned... but seriously it's an internal battle in our mind that nobody else can see.... but we sure know it's there... :)
Posted by chickey on September 28, 2006, at 12:56:02
In reply to Re: Anyone had success on Effexor XR?, posted by Frankie2120 on September 28, 2006, at 10:20:38
Isn't that the truth. I was diagnosed with depression 2 months ago and have been on effexor rx since then. When I talk to my close friends about it they can not belive that I suffer from depression. They think I am just in the dumps and will snap out of it. It is so hard to talk to people that don't have this problem as they have no idea what you actually are going through. I just need people to talk to.....
Posted by gabbie on September 28, 2006, at 13:33:34
In reply to Re: Anyone had success on Effexor XR?, posted by chickey on September 28, 2006, at 12:56:02
It really is hard. Of course therapy worked because she listened and made me feel like I wasn't insane, but friends/family/lovers don't understand unless they go through it or have been there... which nobody I know has. My boyfriend and my mom are getting sick of me constantly complaining about it... they want me to just "snap" out of it, but I always try to explain that it's hard because you can say you will, but inside your head it's like a big giant tidalwave of problems and negativity and sadness and bad times. I can be a mean person (because I have an attitude at times) and I can be sweet, shy, outgoing, friendly, lazy.. blah blah and so on, but instead of knowing who I am and being content, it's like my head is telling me different and I feel like I don't know who I am.. and maybe if the effexor works... I'll stop worrying about who I am and all that and just be myself without problems.
Posted by Frankie2120 on September 28, 2006, at 13:42:11
In reply to Re: Anyone had success on Effexor XR?, posted by chickey on September 28, 2006, at 12:56:02
I know what you mean... and even anymore i'm not even embarrassed to tell people that i am getting help... and funny enough like 20% of the time if i'm talking to someone new it turns out that they are going through the same thing or have been on some kind of medication before and were shy to talk about it too...
One other thing i used to do all the time was have routines... not like super bad ocd or anything where i had to touch things 4 times or walk a certain way... but just things like where i sat or what time i started getting ready and if i wasn't doing somthing at a certain time like normal i would get anxieties and start sweating and become very irratated... I swear everyone in this city knew where i would be sitting saturday nights in my corner in the club with my napkins and everything right in front of me... (it sounds stupid) but it had to be that way or i would be all uncomfterbal... all that has since gone away too and now things are like a whole different world when i'm out.... so far so good with this medicine.... I used to cry during commercials... and boy would i ball at sad movies... it was insane... I enjoyed being sad... sad songs everything... it was outta control... I just thought way too many sad thoughts all the time... and i never had any desire to do anything but lay around unless it was time for somthing routine like going to the gym or going out or going to work... that's it... now i'm doing alot more stuff....
and i'm totaly babbleing on.. i'm sure someones enjoying reading this... haha... I got an hour to kill before i'm leaving work today....
Do you have ringing your ears... My doctor yesterday told me that it may be from some sort of alergy and that's not a normal side effect of effexor.... or mabye i just listen to music too loud and my ears have finaly had it and it just happens to be coninsidental with me starting this medicaion...?? who knows... randome thought.....
Posted by chickey on September 28, 2006, at 14:32:50
In reply to Re: Anyone had success on Effexor XR?, posted by gabbie on September 28, 2006, at 13:33:34
Gabbie you are so right. I have been on Effexor XR for the last two months after a small but very bad spell of depression. Now that I have been on the meds and am starting to see changes I think I have been depressed for many years. It is so hard to explain to people and my husband is the worst of anyone at understanding. My mother died from suicide when I was a baby and I feel that I must do this for me and her.
Posted by gabbie on September 28, 2006, at 16:32:06
In reply to Re: Anyone had success on Effexor XR?, posted by Frankie2120 on September 28, 2006, at 13:42:11
that was something i was going to ask about because some people were saying that had that, i didn't... but i used to get rining in the ears just from them popping or having water in them or music being loud... so maybe everyone is just going through loud music stuff
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