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Posted by Sandra on April 4, 2000, at 10:11:57
In reply to IM SOOOOO CONFUSED! HELP! , posted by Laura on March 28, 2000, at 23:57:25
Not to be cynical (since I've been handling a "bout of depression" myself) but are you sure there is not some physical issue here? Such as vitamin deficiency, hormone changes, lack of exercise, change in diet or thyroid or blood sugar change vice just depression? I'm not trying to say depression isn't real by any means but there is SO much we can do for ourselves other than resorting to a pill for a quick fix. Depression is a state of mind and also body... so my intent is to find things other than meds.
(I've been through zoloft..bad juju sexual side affects ask hubby. Serzone...zombie state and no memory...and now celexa for 2 days....we'll give it a month and see). I think I'm going to knock off the drugs after giving this last one a try for a month. If it doesn't work I will continue therapy once a week and work on diet, exercise and some more time-consuming "fixes" to see what happens when I WORK at those things, vice go for a pill. Nothing comes easy and YES, I'm definitely diagnosed as "depressed" but I'm fighting to be optimistic that I can beat this !!! I believe the underlying physical imbalance makes us susceptible to the "fog" of depression. I too have a life with gerat things going on and "should not" be depressed. But I was also told that "stress" is not just bad things...all change or highly consuming activity creates some stress within us. Even simply being a workaholic (me) can be a stress all by itself. Hang in there and find what works for YOU! We're all individual... try to find the one thing that starts the cycle on the upward trend again and go with that. It may be that you have a thyroid imbalance? It WILL be the start of something good once you figure out where to start! Don't also become obsessed like I did in trying to find out "why" so much as start just working on one thing at a time one DAY at a time. :-) God Bless and keep me posted!
> I really wish I could figure out what is really going on with me. I was recently diagnosed with Depression (something which I've never had before). I am not going through any serious issues... In fact, my life hasnt been this wonderful in quite a long time. I do not wake up each morning sad/or lack of desire to do things. HOWEVER.. I am experiencing terrible blurry vision, terrible brain fog (I'm having difficulty processing information), and virtually no short term memory/recall. I am also irritible and pissed off most of the time...over silly stuff mostly...something which I've never done in my whole life...
>
> I tried Wellbutrin 300mg daily but it didnt even put a dent in it... As of today, I am trying Celexa but am a bit scared ...most of the bulletins indicated that the people who took Celexa functioned but in some sense,they were a bit numb and out of touch.
>
> I just want to be the way I was just a few months ago... happy go lucky and feeling good. It scares me to think that I'm going to be on drugs..maybe for life.... Does anyone have any positive stories about Celexa? Were you able to get off it after a while?
Posted by Sandra on April 4, 2000, at 10:23:22
In reply to Personal choices/Know yourself/Believe in Yourself, posted by Joy on March 31, 2000, at 20:52:18
Joy,
I like what you said and agree! What we believe in makes all the difference and if we believe we can beat this...we can and we will.
Positive thinking is the toughest thing to suggest to someone with depression but the biggest help. In fact some of us fight it because we know people who tell us to start thinking postiive are right and we don't think or believe in ourselves enough to think we can. But at least when someone suggested it to me I started giving it a try...and lo and behold it sure DIDN'T hurt!!! LOL
God Bless!
> Thanks A. and Cam W.
> I am now reading a book by Michael Murray,N.D.,
> 5-HTP The Natural Way to Overcome Depression,Obesity
> and Insomnia.
> So far it makes sense to me-tho I am not a Dr.
> Alot of the info. strikes home.
>
> Also,no matter what "ailment" a person has....the
> chances are greater of recovery..if that person "believes"
> in the choice of treatment.
>
> And there are times when a person is not so much
> "depressed" as they are "confused" about their life.
> Knowing yourself..with growing up..seeking answers
> within (rather than following others or always seeking
> approval or making others decisions...yours) is
> key to being happy and well adjusted.
>
> Joy
Posted by Lauren Heuss on April 4, 2000, at 11:52:39
In reply to more Celexa sharing, posted by torchgrl on February 9, 2000, at 2:46:11
I just started taking today, and am trying to find out what other people thought. Are there any good websites for information? I was taking Prozac but my doctor took me off that and gave me the Celexa. Anything I should know about?
Posted by Valley Girl on April 4, 2000, at 12:56:03
In reply to Re: To Joy: ices/Know yourself/Believe in Yourself, posted by Sandra on April 4, 2000, at 10:23:22
>Being depressed my whole life with issues of no self esteem and dissassociation, I agree in some respects with what you say. But, as we all know telling someone with depression to take care of themselves is like putting a band-aid on a gapping wound. It all sounds good in books and theory.
Why is so easy for some people to be happy? To go through life smelling the flowers and for others just getting out of bed is their biggest accomplishment. No matter how hard I try to change my life, I get bashed in the face again and again, two steps forward, ten steps back. I do think things happen for a reason. I just can't figure out why I was dealt this hand. I don't ever remember being happy. It should be a simple thing. Although I read somewhere that we make to much out of being happy, we should just not expect that much of it.
Thanks for letting me vent.
Valley GirlJoy,
> I like what you said and agree! What we believe in makes all the difference and if we believe we can beat this...we can and we will.
> Positive thinking is the toughest thing to suggest to someone with depression but the biggest help. In fact some of us fight it because we know people who tell us to start thinking postiive are right and we don't think or believe in ourselves enough to think we can. But at least when someone suggested it to me I started giving it a try...and lo and behold it sure DIDN'T hurt!!! LOL
> God Bless!
> > Thanks A. and Cam W.
> > I am now reading a book by Michael Murray,N.D.,
> > 5-HTP The Natural Way to Overcome Depression,Obesity
> > and Insomnia.
> > So far it makes sense to me-tho I am not a Dr.
> > Alot of the info. strikes home.
> >
> > Also,no matter what "ailment" a person has....the
> > chances are greater of recovery..if that person "believes"
> > in the choice of treatment.
> >
> > And there are times when a person is not so much
> > "depressed" as they are "confused" about their life.
> > Knowing yourself..with growing up..seeking answers
> > within (rather than following others or always seeking
> > approval or making others decisions...yours) is
> > key to being happy and well adjusted.
> >
> > Joy
Posted by Joy on April 4, 2000, at 14:16:25
In reply to Re: To Joy: ices/Know yourself/Believe in Yourself, posted by Valley Girl on April 4, 2000, at 12:56:03
Is there one thing in your life that you enjoy doing? Focus on that one thing. What makes you smile? What little thing gives you hope?
Or is there something you have an interest in..but haven't tried? In this big wonderful world..there is something that makes valley girl curious.
What season of the year do you like? If it's spring/summer..do you enjoy gardening? Take several little pots of bright flowers and arrange them
artistically..sit down in the dirt/grass and focus on putting small rocks around the flowers.Remember as a child how you could get totally involved in some simple task and it would take on such concentration that the rest of the world
seemed far away?How about stitchery?Bike riding?Leaf/stamp/coin/whatever collecting?
I believe we are very IMPORTANT,each and everyone of us on this earth..BIG in the sense of importance...but we can find peace and happiness
in the SMALL things in life.Maybe you like numbers..so plan out something in life through numbers.
Or animals,or playing the accordion..play for the people at a seniors home.Try something to give yourself total focus.
Also,give of yourself to others that are having more problems in their
lives than yourself. There are many.Try something..it could lead you to a wonderful new path!
I have an inspiring story of my late mother-in-law and her life journey
through terminal illness,depression and HOPE.
Another time...I have gone on & on here. :)
Posted by Valley Girl on April 4, 2000, at 14:56:13
In reply to What makes you HAPPY VALLEY GIRL??, posted by Joy on April 4, 2000, at 14:16:25
>No one seems to get it. Life is not enough! What is in it is not enough! Children, grandchildren are not enough. I think that happiness is an illusion. It is putting that carrot in front of your nose and dangling it there and never can you get a nibble. To force myself to enjoy something is the problem. It should not be hard to enjoy something. Like I said, if I even try to enjoy something, something happens to make me pay.
And I am on Celexa. It sure isn't helping me!
Thanks for trying!
Is there one thing in your life that you enjoy doing? Focus on that one thing. What makes you smile? What little thing gives you hope?
> Or is there something you have an interest in..but haven't tried? In this big wonderful world..there is something that makes valley girl curious.
> What season of the year do you like? If it's spring/summer..do you enjoy gardening? Take several little pots of bright flowers and arrange them
> artistically..sit down in the dirt/grass and focus on putting small rocks around the flowers.
>
> Remember as a child how you could get totally involved in some simple task and it would take on such concentration that the rest of the world
> seemed far away?
>
> How about stitchery?Bike riding?Leaf/stamp/coin/whatever collecting?
>
> I believe we are very IMPORTANT,each and everyone of us on this earth..BIG in the sense of importance...but we can find peace and happiness
> in the SMALL things in life.
>
> Maybe you like numbers..so plan out something in life through numbers.
> Or animals,or playing the accordion..play for the people at a seniors home.
>
> Try something to give yourself total focus.
> Also,give of yourself to others that are having more problems in their
> lives than yourself. There are many.
>
> Try something..it could lead you to a wonderful new path!
> I have an inspiring story of my late mother-in-law and her life journey
> through terminal illness,depression and HOPE.
> Another time...I have gone on & on here. :)
Posted by Sherry on April 4, 2000, at 15:14:46
In reply to Re: What makes you HAPPY VALLEY GIRL??, posted by Valley Girl on April 4, 2000, at 14:56:13
I get it Valley Girl. I know exactly where you are coming from. I enjoy house cleaning, but you should see my house. It's hard to enjoy when it takes all your effort to just move. I enjoy being clean, but damned if I don't let my shower go more than I like to. I guess we are just wallowing in self-pity, and until we straighten up we will never get better. Not!
> >No one seems to get it. Life is not enough! What is in it is not enough! Children, grandchildren are not enough. I think that happiness is an illusion. It is putting that carrot in front of your nose and dangling it there and never can you get a nibble. To force myself to enjoy something is the problem. It should not be hard to enjoy something. Like I said, if I even try to enjoy something, something happens to make me pay.
>
> And I am on Celexa. It sure isn't helping me!
>
> Thanks for trying!
>
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> Is there one thing in your life that you enjoy doing? Focus on that one thing. What makes you smile? What little thing gives you hope?
> > Or is there something you have an interest in..but haven't tried? In this big wonderful world..there is something that makes valley girl curious.
> > What season of the year do you like? If it's spring/summer..do you enjoy gardening? Take several little pots of bright flowers and arrange them
> > artistically..sit down in the dirt/grass and focus on putting small rocks around the flowers.
> >
> > Remember as a child how you could get totally involved in some simple task and it would take on such concentration that the rest of the world
> > seemed far away?
> >
> > How about stitchery?Bike riding?Leaf/stamp/coin/whatever collecting?
> >
> > I believe we are very IMPORTANT,each and everyone of us on this earth..BIG in the sense of importance...but we can find peace and happiness
> > in the SMALL things in life.
> >
> > Maybe you like numbers..so plan out something in life through numbers.
> > Or animals,or playing the accordion..play for the people at a seniors home.
> >
> > Try something to give yourself total focus.
> > Also,give of yourself to others that are having more problems in their
> > lives than yourself. There are many.
> >
> > Try something..it could lead you to a wonderful new path!
> > I have an inspiring story of my late mother-in-law and her life journey
> > through terminal illness,depression and HOPE.
> > Another time...I have gone on & on here. :)
Posted by TOM on April 5, 2000, at 17:42:47
In reply to Re: What makes you HAPPY VALLEY GIRL??, posted by Sherry on April 4, 2000, at 15:14:46
> > >No one seems to get it. Life is not enough! What is in it is not enough! Children, grandchildren are not enough. I think that happiness is an illusion. It is putting that carrot in front of your nose and dangling it there and never can you get a nibble. To force myself to enjoy something is the problem. It should not be hard to enjoy something. Like I said, if I even try to enjoy something, something happens to make me pay.
> >
> > And I am on Celexa. It sure isn't helping me!
> >
> > Thanks for trying!Valley Girl
It seems to me that you are wallowing in a lot of self pity. I'm not trying to say I'm perfect or anything, far from it. The point of what you wrote is incorrect, though. Enjoyment IS something you have to work for. It's not going to be thrown in your lap. Especially if you are unfortunate enough to be suffering from emotional illness. I've come to learn that the only way to achieve happiness & enjoyment in life is to go out & take it. Best of luck.
Posted by Joy on April 5, 2000, at 17:51:08
In reply to Re: What makes you HAPPY VALLEY GIRL??, posted by Sherry on April 4, 2000, at 15:14:46
I am sure you have heard, that this is IT. This isn't a dress rehearsal..this is the only life we get..right now.If your med's. aren't working ---how important are YOU to YOU?
Get help. Read everything about your illness you can. Don't wait. Research. Find a thread of hope. Seek out some answers. Make it your purpose. Since you have had children,
(I won't say do it for them.) having children is tough,raising them is tough,heck..life is tough sometimes.You have obviously toughed it out through the years...can you try a little more? For you?
Maybe I don't get it...as far as you are concerned...I haven't "walked in your shoes". But I do know that the human spirit wants the goodness,happiness.So don't try to "force" yourself to be happy..find some answers as to why you are unhappy.
Posted by Valley Girl on April 6, 2000, at 7:26:26
In reply to Re: What makes you HAPPY VALLEY GIRL??, posted by Joy on April 5, 2000, at 17:51:08
>I have been in therapy for most of my adult life. 30 plus years. I keep hearing the same thing over and over. I don't understand that happiness has to be hard work. Our parents selfishly put us here for their egotistical or plain stupid reasons and now we're stuck. Life sucks and then you die. But for me you don't die soon enough, you get dragged through hell for what purpose? So you can die! Believe me, I have researched mental health, physical and psychic (I am extremely intutitive and empathic). I thought this was my problem, because I react to everyones emotions around me. I hate knowing what other people think and what is going to happen to them. I have tried, through various methods, to get control of this "gift". Say what you want. I have been there and done that. I am just sick of it all. I am on meds. I have tried natural, homeopathic you name it. Nothing works for me. I am glad that others benefit from meds and positive attitudes. Depression, is what is here for me in this life. I guess I am suppose to learn something from it. Sorry for being such a downer. I can only see the yucky underside of the rock, not the beautiful shiney side!
I am not wallowing in self pity. I just want someone to understand that happiness is or contentment is a hard thing for some us even to understand.
Valley Girl
I am sure you have heard, that this is IT. This isn't a dress rehearsal..this is the only life we get..right now.If your med's. aren't working ---how important are YOU to YOU?
>
> Get help. Read everything about your illness you can. Don't wait. Research. Find a thread of hope. Seek out some answers. Make it your purpose. Since you have had children,
> (I won't say do it for them.) having children is tough,raising them is tough,heck..life is tough sometimes.
>
> You have obviously toughed it out through the years...can you try a little more? For you?
> Maybe I don't get it...as far as you are concerned...I haven't "walked in your shoes". But I do know that the human spirit wants the goodness,happiness.
>
> So don't try to "force" yourself to be happy..find some answers as to why you are unhappy.
Posted by linda on April 6, 2000, at 10:56:54
In reply to Re: celexa, posted by D on March 31, 2000, at 8:32:50
> For anyone who is not happy with Celexa, I've had wonderful results with Zoloft. I was on 50mg.
I have been taking 20mg, of Celexa for the past eight months, and the depression I had suffered from for many years has, thankfully, lifted. However, I have been experiencing jaw clinching and stopped up ears. Has anyone had this problem, and, if so, what did you do about it? Thanks, and I wish you well!
Posted by Emmi on April 7, 2000, at 18:41:08
In reply to Re: celexa, posted by linda on April 6, 2000, at 10:56:54
Hi. After 5 years on Paxil and not one more panic attack, I have decided to try to lose weight. I gained so much after starting Paxil and my doc says that it is almost impossible to lose while taking Paxil. Today he said he just saw a Celexa rep who gave him written documentation that Celexa works the same as Paxil but w/ fewer side effect. The weight gain was not a problem and decreased libito was not as bad as with paxil. Tomorrow I go from 50mg of Paxil to 40 of Celexa. I am worried I'll go back to having panic attacks but I have trusted this psychiatrist thus far and have to try. Any comments would be appreciated. Thanks. Emmi
Posted by Joy on April 7, 2000, at 19:57:27
In reply to Re: What makes you HAPPY VALLEY GIRL??, posted by Valley Girl on April 6, 2000, at 7:26:26
Someone or something must have really hurt you..for you to be so down on life. You sound angry..
Maybe you feel you deserve better? Everything good is work,even happiness. Maybe you just don't
know how to go about it. Or you're afraid of the "side effects".
Posted by erin on April 8, 2000, at 14:36:18
In reply to Re: more Celexa sharing, posted by Lauren Heuss on April 4, 2000, at 11:52:39
i have been taking celexa for 6 days and I don't notice anything yet. A little light headed, dizzy, headaches in the morning but I also have insomnia and restless leg syndrome. Is there anyone who started with similar symptoms and found that they could sleep better or that their legs felt better? I just increased from 10mg to 20 mg last night.
Posted by Valley Girl on April 11, 2000, at 7:49:01
In reply to Scared,huh? to valley girl., posted by Joy on April 7, 2000, at 19:57:27
>Why is it that everyone thinks life is suppose to be hard? I am an atheist and I get so much crap about that too! If you don't fit the "norm" people think there is something wrong with you. If you don't live the "happy" life, something is wrong with you.
I work two jobs. I never miss a day of work. Is that normal? I have been accused of doing to much to avoid my feelings. Maybe I just need the money.
People, especially Americans, think that happiness is a given. It is even in the Declaration of Independence or the Constitution.
If we don't have it, we think we should get it.I guess what I am trying to say is, some people just aren't happy. Why take drugs or do therapy for something that is out of reach? Maybe we should just accept who and what we are and leave it at that. Who is to say that happiness is normal?
Valley Girl
Someone or something must have really hurt you..for you to be so down on life. You sound angry..
> Maybe you feel you deserve better? Everything good is work,even happiness. Maybe you just don't
> know how to go about it. Or you're afraid of the "side effects".
Posted by tom on April 11, 2000, at 16:59:51
In reply to Re: Scared,huh? to valley girl., posted by Valley Girl on April 11, 2000, at 7:49:01
> >Why is it that everyone thinks life is suppose to be hard? I am an atheist and I get so much crap about that too! If you don't fit the "norm" people think there is something wrong with you. If you don't live the "happy" life, something is wrong with you.
>
> I work two jobs. I never miss a day of work. Is that normal? I have been accused of doing to much to avoid my feelings. Maybe I just need the money.
>
> People, especially Americans, think that happiness is a given. It is even in the Declaration of Independence or the Constitution.
> If we don't have it, we think we should get it.
>
> I guess what I am trying to say is, some people just aren't happy. Why take drugs or do therapy for something that is out of reach? Maybe we should just accept who and what we are and leave it at that. Who is to say that happiness is normal?
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> Valley Girl
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> If someone wants to be unhappy that's fine with me. I'm too busy trying to make myself happy to worry about anyone else. I just personally think that happiness is something worth working for. There are also people out there that value money and others that don't. I also think that money is worth working for, and that's also something that not everyone can acheive. Especially in this capitalist society. By the way, I'm also an atheist & I don't care what anyone else thinks.
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Posted by Joy on April 11, 2000, at 18:18:19
In reply to Re: Scared,huh? to valley girl., posted by Valley Girl on April 11, 2000, at 7:49:01
I don't believe in god either.But I believe that happiness feels better than unhappiness.
Fed is better than hunger..etc.
I agree about the drugs. I am off all these anti-depressants,
(zoloft and started celexa). It is nice to FEEL again..instead of
being an automan.
(I get scared if I am not "happy" and start analyzing myself. Am I getting depressed..
do I feel anxiety? Maybe I should take a pill, etc.)This society does try to stuff a way of life at us. Look like this,dress like this,own
this many cars..house..etc.
I do what I feel is best for me.
You are entitled to,too. Maybe you are "happy" just the way you are!> >Why is it that everyone thinks life is suppose to be hard? I am an atheist and I get so much crap about that too! If you don't fit the "norm" people think there is something wrong with you. If you don't live the "happy" life, something is wrong with you.
>
> I work two jobs. I never miss a day of work. Is that normal? I have been accused of doing to much to avoid my feelings. Maybe I just need the money.
>
> People, especially Americans, think that happiness is a given. It is even in the Declaration of Independence or the Constitution.
> If we don't have it, we think we should get it.
>
> I guess what I am trying to say is, some people just aren't happy. Why take drugs or do therapy for something that is out of reach? Maybe we should just accept who and what we are and leave it at that. Who is to say that happiness is normal?
>
> Valley Girl
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> Someone or something must have really hurt you..for you to be so down on life. You sound angry..
> > Maybe you feel you deserve better? Everything good is work,even happiness. Maybe you just don't
> > know how to go about it. Or you're afraid of the "side effects".
Posted by R. on April 12, 2000, at 9:16:22
In reply to Re: Scared,huh? to valley girl., posted by tom on April 11, 2000, at 16:59:51
Hi-
I started taking Celexa about a month ago. (Just to let you all know, I'm an atheist as well, but I really don't think that has anything to do with the medication!?!?!?!!!) Anyway...I was on EFFEXOR before that for 4 years. Somehow I don't think that should ever have happened. Oh well, it's all trial and error. I think that the effexor was AMAZING at first, but then after a while, it stopped working, and I continued taking it for too long while it wasn't working, hoping that it would somehow start working again!?!?! (DOH!!!!)Celexa has not helped me much so far. I haven't gained any weight, which is good. The dry mouth is less than Effexor. I do feel incredibly TIRED all of the time though. I exercise frequently, but that doesn't help. One other thing about Celexa compared to effexor, is that I used to be able to go out and have a beer or two with friends. Now I don't think I should. It seems like the alcohol has a much stronger effect, and I don't like that.
I'm considering changing to Wellbutrin (sp??), but don't know if I should. Does anyone have any more information about that one???? AUGH, i wish that one would work, and I could just STAY on that one.
After all of this, I forgot to mention my mood on Celexa. Well, it hasn't helped much. No where near as effective as Effexor was for the first year or so....
Posted by Mora on April 12, 2000, at 22:39:25
In reply to Re: more Celexa sharing, posted by erin on April 8, 2000, at 14:36:18
Today was my third day on Celexa. After reading all these postings, it scares me. My stomach has felt weird almost nauseous and almost like really bad cramps. I was never a good sleeper so I can't tell if it is affecting my sleep. One question, did it seem to anyone out there that they had to go "potty" more often? I haven't had any more liquid than usual, but feel like I have to go ALL THE TIME.
Posted by Mora on April 12, 2000, at 22:40:43
In reply to Re: more Celexa sharing, posted by erin on April 8, 2000, at 14:36:18
one more question any weight gains or losses?
Posted by Phoenix on April 13, 2000, at 8:28:13
In reply to Re: CELEXA or Not to CELEXA...???, posted by Alex on March 28, 2000, at 14:14:49
> Kathy, I found Celexa really good. 40mg made the world look good to live in again. It was okay to get up in the morning and face the day.Little things no longer sent me over the top. I was also able to make use of some cognitive behavioural therapy which also helped, especially thought stopping and reframing negative thoughts ie looking at the glass as though it is half full, not half empty.
> Pills can take away the responsibility for making changes to ones own life, it is important to find the right coach to help with this.I really like what Alex said about Celexa's helping "little things no longer make him go over the top." The more I read on this bullletin board, the more I wonder if Celexa ought to be classed as a special treatment for agitated depression, which is the type I suffer (along with a neuromuscular disease). When I'm in "that state", forget the glass. There IS no glass. Everything is a crisis, everything must be solved right then, and worry and anxiety become the order of the day. Yet, two medications so far have helped that.
I woke up one morning when I was taking Paxil, several years ago, and realized I no longer had the "clatter" in my head. Not voices, mind you.....I'm not psychotic. Just daily "you must do this or that" type or clatter. Things that really could have waited while I went out for a walk or a swim. It was the most astounding feeling. The only problem was, I slept---very nearly around the clock. Not necessarily because it made me sleepy, but because I *could* (part of taking responsibility again). I hadn't slept in soooo long and it felt so good. I also have a sleeping disorder.
Finally had to go off Paxil for that reason. I have been on Celexa 20 mg for three months, and have noticed a distinct decrease in crying spells, and an ability to get started and organized. Nothing amazing, like the Paxil quiet. Yet. I just went up to 40 mgs three days ago, and slept from 0930 yesterday morning to 1515, and 1800 to just now. So I cut back to 30 mg for a week or two, and we'll see how that goes. I've notice a definite drop in anxiety level since starting on 40 mg, a drop in internal "barmometric pressure". :-)
As one who has had to be on one antidepressant or another since 1988 for unipolar, endogenous (biological) agitated and occasionally fearful depression, I'd like to pass on that it takes times for antidepressants to work. Some longer than others. Only Paxil worked quickly. I was on Zoloft the longest, but, like someone said, it just stopped working, and that happens. So just give it time---I can almost guarantee you'll have side effects at first, but they almost always pass. If they don't after a few months, or are a danger to driving, etc., call your doctor immediately.I hope I've helped someone. Just the voice of experience.
Posted by jodi on April 13, 2000, at 10:24:18
In reply to Re: CELEXA or Not to CELEXA...???, posted by Phoenix on April 13, 2000, at 8:28:13
Hi all. I just need to unburden a bit if you don't mind. I have been on one anti-depressant or another for six years or so. I aparently have borderline personality disorder with bouts of major depression. I am a 38 year old university student (yay for me...). Anyway, I've tried all the SSRI's which all quit working or made me sleep all the time. Now I'm on Celexa since last summer--took 20, then up to 30 when we moved and I was super-stressed, then up to forty cuz I was weepy all the time and panicky. Now, I sleep every chance I get. My school work gets done, but I do no more of anything than is absolutely necessary, and I would rather sleep than just about anything. My doctor is hesitant to take me off them because I am getting my work done and my self-esteem is fair (in some areas anyway). But "I don't care" is my motto, and I have absolutely no control over my eating or exercize habits. I've had a half-headache since Christmas (which I forgot to mention to my Dr., cuz I'm so used to it) and my weight is creeping up at a steady pace. I am 4'10" and weighed a pudgy 120 when I began medication forever ago, now I weigh 145 with no end in sight--my doctor is singularly unconcerned about my weight I might add. I've had thyroid hormone blood tests which were fine. My eating is sporadic, but not really excessive, though I do eat in the middle of the night when I wake up after those weird nightmares that leave me all sweaty. I am at least able to cry. The last medication I was on (and I forget which it was) took away any emotions stronger than "I don't like spinach". I don't want to be "crazy" again, I'll be graduating in August, and I need my brain for work, but I can't live like this--I have no control, and my weight is beginning to really affect my health (asthma, decreased agility, not to mention embarassment to be seen by anyone). What do I do? Any suggestions?
Posted by Barbara on April 13, 2000, at 13:44:32
In reply to What is happening?, posted by Mora on April 12, 2000, at 22:40:43
> one more question any weight gains or losses?
well. i gained about 20 pounds. i had so many "little" side effects that i stopped using it and feel so much better. the interesting thing, mora, is your need to go to the bathroom all the time. i thought i was becoming incontinent. anyone else with such a problem?
pls excuse typing - my right hand is in a cast.
Posted by D on April 14, 2000, at 14:09:39
In reply to Re: Scared,huh? to valley girl., posted by Valley Girl on April 11, 2000, at 7:49:01
Valley Girl,
I thought this might be worth sharing. At times when I have have been at rock bottom, and NOTHING else seems to work, I have just turned the situation over to a higher power. I make a decision to the the higher power handle it. I have found this works for any situation for me. I have certain scriptures that I have as ones I particularly like. I take them like medicine----hourly, daily, or whatever I decided the dose to be. As with other medicines, it may not seem to work at first, but after a while, an amazing peace sets in. If you want me to post some of these particular scriptures that have been my favorites, just let me know. I DO NOT see your situation as just not trying hard enough like some of the other people that are on here. I do hope that someday soon the black cloud will lift for you and you'll feel much better.
D
Posted by CHRISTINA on April 14, 2000, at 18:02:17
In reply to Re: more Celexa sharing, posted by Noa on February 9, 2000, at 5:50:33
> Sorry to hear about this disappointing experience. What do you think you'll try next?
>
> the questions/decisions you describe about weekend mornings sound oh so familiar!
I WAS ALSO ON THIS MED. MY HUSBAND MADE THE COMMENT "YOU DON'T SEEM TO CARE ABOUT ANYTHING." THE FUNNY THING IS I THOUGHT I WAS DOING SO WELL.SINCE I HAVE DISCONTINUED THE MED. BUT I ALWAYS THINK WOULD I BE DOING BETTER IF I RESUMED THE MED?
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