Posted by Susan47 on October 21, 2005, at 21:05:25
In reply to Re:hear the dog. ;-) » Susan47, posted by Toph on October 20, 2005, at 23:20:34
> Put simply, I only help some people at work, my wife cried the other day because she feels like I don't love her, I have a hard time showing my kids how much I love them unless there's a crisis, I'm drinking more, I'm sleeping less, I was an unhappy sensitive kid and I'm not much better now. You've been a good friend to me susan. Thank you.
You're worn out right now. Completely stuck.
No hug would help you enough, no shoulder would be big enough .. only tears and change will do it.
You're about to go through great change, Toph.
I can feel it.
You're going to be okay.
You're beautiful, your wife is beautiful and she just needs more than you have, right now, and she can get it if you show her where to turn, maybe she could use a professional friend for awhile, to pull up the slack when you need this rejuvenation.
What makes you feel good? Tell me all of the things, including things you think maybe you shouldn't, only because maybe there's some guilt involved.
I wish I could help you. You're a dear, gentle man.
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