Posted by alexandra_k on April 19, 2005, at 22:01:39
In reply to Re: ((((Susan)))), posted by Susan47 on April 19, 2005, at 21:56:24
Oh Susan, of course you have a brain!
Really
You are one smart lady.
I'm not so good with the old compliments.
I used to hate them.
Thought people only gave them to me to embarrass the hell out of me.
I used to scowl when people gave me a compliment.
My nice DBT therapist spent a lot of time with me on that.
I have learned to take compliments.
But I guess I still haven't really gotten the hang of giving them.
I refrain 'cause I think people will respond to them the way I used to - to feel humiliated like I am mocking them or something.
But most people like 'em.
I need to remember that.
And getting better at giving them sometimes.
(((Susan)))
You are one smart lady.
Yup.
YOU
:-)
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