Posted by karen_kay on February 12, 2008, at 14:39:58
In reply to Sex Addiction? Or Just Filling the Void, posted by becksFLA on January 26, 2008, at 10:45:24
geez, i can sympathize with you!
i wouldn't say that i was 'addicted' to sex, but i understand what you're saying. it's rough dealing with these.
i'm curious, and this may be out of the blue, but were you abused or anything as a child (oh man, i'm not trying to say anything, but i was and that really had an effect on me, and my 'needing sex from strangers' i had a friend once, who made the comment, while we were talking about safe sex and i got on her about not using a condom.. well, anyway she said 'this, coming from the girl who gives head to anyone on the street!' that still sticks with me.. but, if you were abused, that could contribute to your 'need/addiction' to sex.)
butttttt, anyway, it's rough not having someone close to you (i think that's kinda the impression i got from your post, right?)
sorry, i just saw there was no response and wantwed you to know i understand. man oh man, do i understand. i'm married, typically get on better with men than women, and when my male friends come over, sometimes it's really freakin hard to resist the urge.
i have no practical advice for you. and i understand settling, jsut to have someone close, even for a night (or few hours, you know?)
take care of yourself, and i hope things go good for you. as my mother always sys 'if it feels good, do it' (yeah, that was her motto and i get this attitude from her)
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