Posted by ClearSkies on September 14, 2005, at 7:17:51
In reply to Re: Way nervous today., posted by coley on September 13, 2005, at 22:02:08
I don't think there is anything to risk by trying a few meetings. Most people find them to be the safe environment they need to keep straight and sober, and develop new friendships that reinforce the new and healthier way of life we need to adopt.
If you're worried about anonymity, why not try attending a meeting a little bit out of your way? less likely to run into people you know...
And you don't have to tell anyone - family or friends - that you're going to meetings. I learned the hard way that not all members of my family are able or willing to give me the support I need. Whether from denial, discomfort, or misunderstanding - I just know that my newly sober feelings were bruised when I didn't get an overwhelming attagirl! from my family when I started getting help. It can make you feel less confident that you are doing the right thing (which you are!!) at a time when you really need encouragement.
ClearSkies
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