Posted by alexandra_k on April 15, 2021, at 22:15:47
In reply to Re: the courts, posted by alexandra_k on April 15, 2021, at 22:06:56
the only way she could have convinced or persuaded me she was stronger would have been by being more remote / aloof.
because i really wanted to belive...
if she hadn't have told me anything about her having come from a small town etc etc. lalalallalalalalla i don't want to hear about your personal life.
and if she could have sat.
we did some sitting. mindfulness meditation. also known as: two minutes of shut the f*ck up. it's okay to sit in the quiet. don't feel that you have to say things and for me to be saying 'yes' and 'good' and 'ooh that's new thanks' and 'you are so helpful' and so on...
for you to actually BE helpful.
just sitting in the f*ck*ng quiet would have been okay.
but she couldn't. because she was young and trying to do her job according to how she'd been trained.. and the whole training model.. ffs...
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