Posted by alexandra_k on September 26, 2018, at 7:10:23
In reply to Re: Partlycloudy, posted by alexandra_k on September 26, 2018, at 2:03:33
when i was interviewed for here i met up with someone who i met on a internet board forum. our interviews were around the same time. I was happy to walk but she wanted a taxi - she ended up in the back and I was in the front. I ended up paying (she didn't jump in to split the bill). In the coffee shop she didn't offer to buy me a coffee to split the bill that way.
Of course I could have said 'you get me a coffee because I got you the cab'. But that's not really the way I am. I just make a mental note of how she's not a reciprocater. She's someone who is happy to take more than her fair share - if she thinks she can get away with it. If I get to choose who to work with in future, it won't be with her.
Maybe that's not fair. I would give her other chances / observe how she acts with others.
Anyway... She ended up being offered a place.
That surprised me. She was Australian and had no ties to NZ.
That means the NZers they pick to do Med have no ties here.
I don't see how else to view that.
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