Posted by Pontormo on October 14, 2017, at 9:44:17
In reply to Re: Loveshy, posted by Lamdage22 on October 14, 2017, at 6:35:11
I'm not an expert on facebook, but you could also send her a message saying hi and saying you remember her and are glad to find her on facebook. Then you could tell her a little about what you're doing.
or you could post on her page, or on your page and maybe it will be on her page too-- I guess that depends on her settings-- but if you post a few things that you're interested in or are doing, and then contact her, it might give her an introduction to you before you contact her directly.
If you're friendly-- as in-- open to her, and not worried that she'll think you like her--- really it's better if she does-- because you have a much better chance of getting to know her if she thinks you like her-- (she's unlikely to think you have a major crush on her, unless she's a major narcissist)-- she probably will respond.
It's okay to like someone-- or to have a crush on someone-- you don't have to be ashamed of it-- or pretend not to-- if she doesn't reciprocate it probably means you two aren't that compatible and she just happens to notice it first. It doesn't feel good-- but it happens to everyone-- and more than once to many people. You'll be on good, and certainly large, company-- I promise you. And it's not so awful, after a while. It can take several tries to find someone you fit with-- but it's better to try.
(I know I"m making it sound easy, when I isn't-- but I hear that being as much of an optimist as possible gives us a better chance of getting what we want .)
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