Posted by Deneb on July 13, 2017, at 7:39:51
In reply to Re: Lots of updates, posted by Dr. Bob on July 13, 2017, at 0:48:22
> > I'm also getting married in May after I finish my last semester.
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> > I like to think that I relearned how to attach to others here at Babble, by learning how my actions hurt others, and by experiencing my first strong attachment to another person.
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> Married! Congratulations! What's he like? I'm delighted that Babble played such an important role in your growth.
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> Bob
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>I met my fiancé more than 4 years ago playing a game outside. We both like to play games. We're both very introverted. He's very logical, and intelligent. I'm very attracted to his mind. He has amazing spatial awareness, and is great at doing calculations in his mind. I, on the other hand am um, challenged in these areas lol.
He's very sweet, kind, and understanding. He's not much of a talker in the presence of strangers, but he can be talkative with more familiar people. I'm pretty much the same way, except I'm more talkative with strangers, and probably a bit more socially aware.
We're both geeky, but he's the bigger geek. :-)
He almost never gets angry, is very laid-back, and accepting of others. In all the years I've known him, I've not seen him angry with me. He doesn't really experience much negative emotions much at all. He has a very stable personality, and emotions.
He's also the least judgemental person I know. He tries to see things from other's perspectives to understand them. I think this is why he almost never gets angry.
He's also extremely hard working when needed. He's definitely more hardworking than I am.
We've both discovered that we're very affectionate people, with is a little weird because we both grew up in homes without physical or verbal affection. He's probably more affectionate than I am, but I love it.
He also taught me to be more silly, and playful. He has great relationships with his friends and family. He's the sort of person who has friends for life. I definitely need to work on my friendships more.
We come from pretty different backgrounds, but our values are amazingly similar. It's like convergent evolution with cultures or something lol.
We love one another very much, and neither of us has any doubts about being together for life.
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