Posted by rjlockhart37 on December 7, 2015, at 22:41:51
co-dependency is a bad way to deal with life, it's like i wait for someone to come along and give me a helping hand, that point you realize the only person on this planet that you can relyon is yourself, and you have to know it truely inside not just think it for a second......
like have a connection with yourself that if everyone left your own friend, and you can rely on yourself through self comfort, like.....i see alot of people falling in love and rely with eachother, i mean people where programmed to fall in love, but i lack alot of connection, and like that feeling your the only person on this planet that will be alone, that is not self pity for me, but i think the best is when your feel alone and you feel a connection with your own self that your own friend, and no matter what happens that you will stay solid.
lots of times like i said, i wait on that one person to save you, and ... your the only person that can save you because you know your own emotions, and can know the pattern of how things work, what the errors where, and develop like a documented record of everything, and learning from it.
Everytime i see a therapist, it seems like i go in circles and they get frusrated, and say i'm missing an obvious point to take action, and it seems to just go in a cycle, right now therapists can't really help, they can't handle situations for me, they can only say manage your emotions and just talk, it doesnt do anything for me at all......i could talk to a random person on the street in the city and they could a connection with me for a period of 30min, i just....don't see improvement with working with inner emotions with someone else....it never works. The only way i think is knowing inner connection, and learning about developing self relience.......i post more insight about myself here than i do talking with therapists, there too anaylitical and critizing
so......i guess seeing yourself in the mirror and smiling and saying im gonna make it, i can become anyone i want to become is simple enough
r
not a genius but understand pain
"unheard pain is told through good company
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