Posted by SLS on August 27, 2014, at 23:52:12
In reply to Making it just a bit easier, posted by ClearSkies on August 26, 2014, at 13:41:59
> This is so much harder when there is no hate involved. Only sadness.
Yes. Anger is a hell of a motivator.
To me, divorce is always sad, even when it is the best thing for both parties. I don't think that too many people go into marriage with the ultimate goal of getting a divorce. There are still times when I experience sadness when thinking about my divorce, even though I know that it was the only way that each of us could pursue our happiness as individuals. It has been 24 years.
Some days will be harder than others. Keep yourself focused on your goals. Remind yourself of the reasons why you chose to make such dramatic changes in your life. Acknowledge your needs and desires. As sad and difficult as all of this is for you, consider it the price you must pay for your ultimate happiness and fulfillment. Move forward towards health and away from sickness.
You'll be okay.
- ScottSome see things as they are and ask why.
I dream of things that never were and ask why not.- George Bernard Shaw
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