Posted by alexandra_k on September 4, 2013, at 22:55:59
In reply to Nowhere else to put the words, posted by Partlycloudy on September 2, 2013, at 14:34:55
I'm sorry I haven't responded sooner. I don't have internet access at home. Seems the provider has persuaded the people who are "looking after" me that they are in Singapore so they can't do anything about it not working at all over the last couple weeks (thought they are still paying for a supposedly unlimited connection, I believe). Anyway, I've been... Wrapped up in myself. Sorry.
I was really moved by your post. I think I, too, post some of the stuff here that is too personal to post to my journal (were I to keep one). If I articulated it privately... It would fester. Somehow it doesn't when it is "out there". Maybe because most of the awfulness of it is the privacy / secrecy thing. I don't know.
Sounds like some time out could be a good idea. Then you get to see honestly whether you in fact miss him and desire to spend more time with him, or whether you blossom with your new found personal space.
If he doesn't give you the opportunity to miss him / desire him to be closer... Well...
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