Posted by alexandra_k on July 27, 2013, at 0:40:18
In reply to Social Skills, posted by alexandra_k on July 27, 2013, at 0:29:20
hmm... maybe it is like me trying to do maths. my anxiety prevents my comprehension and i need something to lessen the anxiety before i can function. maybe that is what the looking / smiling is for. to take 30 seconds - 90 seconds to put the person at ease before putting in the request. then build rapport so eventually can be done with a nod or an eyebrow raise or a slight touch. maybe that is it. sigh.
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