Posted by Zyprexa on June 12, 2012, at 22:56:01
In reply to Relationships, posted by xean on June 12, 2012, at 18:27:10
I've had the same problem. I finaly got a job where I'm around a lot of people all the time. Delivering pizza. I managed to find 2 girls to date in the last year. But they didn't last long. My new problem is that I run away from girls now. I meet nice looking girls at houses and don't say much and try to run away as soon as possible. Not sure what my fear is, maybe rejection. But some of them realy seem interested. Not sure what the answer is, part of my problem is social anxiety, which probably has something to do with it. I guess the best way to get over this is with exposure, constantly, go places, a bar I suppose. Which is some thing I have a hard time with now. I just don't seem to meet people, I just run away. So I don't go to bars anymore, I've had some bad experiences with bars too. I think part of my problem also had something to do with the fact that my meds made me fat for a number of years and so I was rejected a number of times. I'm trying to get back into it but just can't seem to.
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