Posted by Enigma on November 1, 2010, at 19:11:06
In reply to My former pdoc is EVIL, posted by Marie1 on October 28, 2010, at 19:13:13
> I learned the day before yesterday that my former psychiatrist said some very nasty things about me to a friend during her therapy session. Dr. F., my pdoc, introduced me to K while we were both in therapy with him, because I was looking for a trainer and she was starting up a business. I worked out with K for many years, and after I quit, we remained good friends. I terminated therapy with Dr. F. in the fall of 2006, and she continued on with him for perhaps another year. She told me this week that Dr. F. said to her, "Marie's husband" (he commutes to Long Island for work) "must be having an affair while he's in New York, because I don't know how he can stand her." (!!!!!)
> I am devastated to hear this. K had never told me this before because she didn't want to hurt my feelings. I really am hurt, though. I never got the impression Dr. F. had such a low opinion of me; quite the contrary. I know K is not lying about what she told me.
> I literally cannot concentrate on anything - I keep going over this scenario in my head. I have another psychiatrist now and when I told him this yesterday, his jaw literally dropped, he was so shocked at this man's lack of ethics.
> I just had to relate this to whomever was willing to read this post. I just can't get it out of my head.I'll believe anything.
I have been badmouthed by one of my doctors, to another doctor. The doctor I was badmouthed to refused to treat me and worded it in such a ridiculous web of lies and stupidity it just turned me off to him completely - so much that I knew he was hiding something, and I didn't trust him, at all. Let alone how ridiculous he sounded, like a 5 year old, trying to lie about painting all over the wall, while still holding the paint can in one hand, and the paint brush, still dripping with paint, in the other.
He told another doctor not to see me because I got angry at him. For good reason too. I called him a number of times (over 3 weeks) to sign my disability forms and pretty much, my entire financial life was hanging in the balance of this one lazy doctor (and he did it again, not bad mouth me, refused to signed paperwork - wife called him 2-3 times for my med records - every other office we called had no problem transferring my records except his) as he wouldn't get off his butt and sign a simple form in two places and just tell me as I WOULD EVEN PICK IT UP. He didn't even have to mail it!!!!!!!!!
I drove down there in person and he freaked out and though I was gonna kill him, it made me laugh actually.. he threatened to call the police. I told him him I'm not here to hurt you. I want you to sign these documents. We've been calling you for weeks and I need this money to FEED my family. His wife actually tried to calm him down. He finally signed them and I was gone.
Then he went on complained to me how he "bent over backwards to help me".. this is the same doctor I complained about in another post that gave me ALL the WRONG medication for the WRONG disorder, just handing my sample packet after sample packet, knowing NOTHING about bi-polar disorder. He was giving my depression medication. I should have went to the board of health. I wish I did. He put me through 1-2 years (I forget) of unnecessary hardship and pain by dispensing me incorrect medication (when I was a "newbie" at all this). Then I went to a REAL doctor, (somewhat), and learned what a fraud he was, and then learned a great deal by coming here. One would think that after giving me 5 ssri's in a row, and none of them giving me anything besides side-effects, he would change his medication "plan". Too bad he never had a plan.
Jeez.
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