Posted by garnet71 on June 2, 2009, at 2:17:45
In reply to If he calls me sexy, posted by Deneb on June 2, 2009, at 1:01:38
Hon, maybe you just need to figure out your triggers with your therapist and work on some issues before you are ready to date. I'm probably not ready to date now either, I have a list of my own issues i'm dealing with right now. There's a right time and right place for everything.
I'm just another opinion on a forum to you, but in seeing you mention self harm and wanting to die is a pretty good indication that you are not ready to date. I also don't think anyone should be encouraging you to date--on this forum or anywhere else--with that level of emotional unstabilitity. Your mother may not be providing suggestions that are best for you right now. You could get hurt really bad.
I think you can figure this all out on your own, but I also think you are a bit clouded by your emotions right now.
Please talk to your therapist first and please be careful.
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