Posted by gobbledygook on May 27, 2009, at 11:48:55
In reply to I am going on dates tomorrow (weds), posted by Deneb on May 26, 2009, at 23:13:06
You've gotten great advice in the above threads. I just want to add -
Keep in mind you're meeting someone through an online dating site, and they may not be as open and honest as you are.
Dont disclose your home phone number (he can find your home address in just a few clicks...in my state, I can get
a layout of your house and various financial information.)Dont get in the car with him. No matter how nice he seems... you are completely at his mercy when you are in his car.
Look beyond words and follow your instincts. Really get to know the person before letting your guard down and revealing
too much personal info.I don't want to alarm you and spoil your fun, but there are some very bad apples out there. So be careful and go slow.
Be "picky" and take time to learn about yourself through this process to find the "right one".I hope it all works out for you and we'll hear about how much fun you had.
Gobbledygook
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