Posted by 10derHeart on February 16, 2009, at 18:42:09
In reply to Chick magnet...., posted by Kath on February 16, 2009, at 16:49:59
I also completely agree with you, Kath. Scott is special, and we don't even 'know' him :-)
I always tell my T., who is still trying to wrap his head around it, or trying to believe I really mean it or something - that for me, integrity is the sexiest, most attractive thing about a man. May sound odd, but it's totally accurate for me. If you do the right thing when no one knows and no one's looking - I'm putty....
Followed closely, of course, by stuff like compassion, decency, kindness, and so forth.
Not that I couldn't make a list of physical things that are ever-so-sexy......but, here's the thing... have you ever noticed, you may find someone pleasing to look at (maybe even gorgeous) then they open their mouths and speak, or they interact with you or others in a cruel, dishonest, or other bad way - that they suddenly, appear to - and I do mean physically - look *different* - no longer attractive AT ALL? I think it's because, sadly, the bad stuff on the inside leaked out... :-(
anyway....just sayin' Scott, Kath knows of what she speaks.
My "market status" will remain uncommented on at this time ;-)
-10der-who-has-maybe-said-too-much-Heart
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