Posted by TexasChic on September 5, 2008, at 22:04:08
In reply to Re: Concern about not having any friends, posted by Little Bird KK on September 5, 2008, at 20:21:35
I may not be able to give you any advice, but I can tell you I'm in the same boat. Except no boyfriend. And I'm 38. So see, you could be worse off. Okay, now I'm depressed.
The way you described the friends you had in the past sounds like mine too. I've had the same sort of pattern of one sided relationships where after a while they start treating me badly. So for the past 3 years I've just done without friends.
We must have similar personalities. I'm just now realizing that I have a reoccurring pattern through out my whole life of being bullied. My therapist says the only way to change things is by not allowing myself be put into that role of victim, but we haven't gotten much further than that. Needless to say, I still have quite a ways to go. Are you seeing a T?
-T
P.S. You wouldn't happen to be a Pisces would you? Now that would be too weird.
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