Posted by muffled on July 1, 2008, at 10:41:40
In reply to Re: A bad thing about caring » Deneb, posted by Dinah on July 1, 2008, at 8:09:22
Its diff than just "worry" in a negative sense.
We "worry" cuz we care. It feels good to care about others.
But I come ALONGSIDE you in your struggles. They are not my own. I wish you the best, but I understand that you Deneb are you. So while I worry some, I do not mind that worry. It is a sign of my humanity and that I care, and that is a GOOD thing.
Worrying obsessively is a prob. But like I say, I come alongside you. Share your burden and offer words of hope when I can.
That is healthy worrying/caring.
So worrying is NOT BAD.
Deneb, you can speak here and share what you feel.
Thats what I like about you. That you are honest. That you work hard to be the best you can be. You are an amazing person Deneb, I don't think you give yourself nearly enuf credit.
We are all works in progress, our whole lives. I have enjoyed reading your posts and seeing your growth.
It is an honour to be able to share in your journey.
Thank you for that.
Please continue to post if it helps you.
Sorry I am not around much, but there are many good people here, who i am sure feel the same way as I.
(((Deneb)))
M
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