Posted by Kath on May 28, 2008, at 19:43:26
In reply to P.S., posted by TexasChic on May 28, 2008, at 18:40:21
> Sorry if my writing is kind of choppy. I just don't have the energy to put together a sensible, well written post.
>
> -THey TC - I didn't find ANYthing wrong with your writing!! I'm glad she didn't see you being upset. I'd agree to what people say about not letting her get to you - although it sounds like that would be VERY hard when you're working you a** off & then she says something like that.
I am SO glad that they don't call the current boss. That is such a blessing.
I also would hold on to the events at the party. I bet people really respect you, to have 'hung in there' with that boss for as long as you have.
I really am sending you positive thoughts & hopes that you get the other job TC.
I send my love! luv & hugs, Kath
PS - no wonder you feel down hun. xoxoxo
And remember what is sometimes said about Depression being Anger-turned-inwards. Do you think you could do some things to get some of the helplessness you must feel & the anger - to get it out?? Like writing an email & writing "stupid-face b*tch" in the address line - or something & saying exACTly what you'd LOVE to say to her face? Or going to a forest & hitting the ground with a big stick? Or anything like that? In the past, during the years my son was a VERY-acting-out teen, I saved hard plastic kitty-litter bottles. When the 'need' arose, I used a big rubber camping mallet (sp?) to hit them, down the basement & with each 'hit' I'd say a word or a few words - whatEVER I felt like!!!!! Man alive - it sure helped me get some of those helpless, angry feelings OUT!! LOL
I send you big hugs. And once again, hope you get that job. If you don't, hopefully there'll be others. luv, Kath
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