Posted by ClearSkies on March 19, 2008, at 20:40:52
In reply to Re: During those evenings when I'm by myself, posted by Toph on March 19, 2008, at 19:44:00
> As a small aside, I guess I'm sorry to see your DH down on the priority list unless Im reading too much into what you said. He's jealous because he got to meet us, and I think he saw how interesting we can be (if I don't say so myself). He'd be less jealous if we had been a buch of boring stiffs. My DW (if i guessed the code correctly) isn't so much jealous of my friends here as suspicious, a natural thing when she only has her imagination to rely on.
Actually, my understanding of the dynamic is that my DH (and yes, you've got the terminology spot on) has problems with boundaries - that is, he doesn't have any. So if he's on the sofa watching TV, and I'm on the computer babbling, he's pretty much interrupting me the whole time and I can't string together a post that's the least bit coherent. I get pretty irritated at it in short order - and rather than ask repeatedly to be left alone, I've elected to walk away from the computer while he and I are having our together-ish time.
I don't get nearly as ticked off when he flips back and forth between channels on the remote control... really I don't!
It's likewise nice to see you, though I share your pain over the Dr Bob-Void.
CS
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