Posted by Faedra on December 15, 2007, at 23:57:29
I have been in therapy, but what's the use? Nothing changes! :( None of my relationships ever go anywhere.
I was just rejected by someone who I had *really* developed feelings for. Even though we only dated a few months, I was in love with him. He just didn't feel the same way about me (although he has said and shown me that he cares about me).
Everyone always tells me that I am "too nice." I can't help but be a people pleaser. Why does this make people reject me?! I know that people think that being "too nice" means you don't respect yourself, but hey...no one is perfect...so why can't I find someone who will love me as I am, even if I'm too nice and insecure?
I'm devastated and don't know what the point of going out with anyone is, because inevitably they will reject me for being insecure.
poster:Faedra
thread:801083
URL: http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/social/20071130/msgs/801083.html