Posted by Jay_Bravest_Face on August 16, 2007, at 18:13:54
In reply to Re: Gabbi, Phillipa, Slinky....oh what a story to tell » Jay_Bravest_Face, posted by slinky on August 15, 2007, at 14:26:30
> Jay..
> Some women like myself like chunky huggable men so don't be concerned about your weight.
> I keep chatting to men in the supermarket...after a few minutes I freeze because suddenly I get over self conscious. Maintaining the confidence is tricky , suppose you have to keep practicing.
> Were in the same boat...
> Keep at it, things will fall into a sweet place and good loving will bloom like my flowery plant.Now, I am like.."Damn..that MAY have been a chance at something!" One thing I am lucky for, though, is that even being bit overweight, I am about 6 feet, and have a big bone build to hide much of it. But the confidence thingy...I just don't have that fortitude, to project this "I am #1" kind of attitude. Bad bad day. Even my sex drive I think is silently laughing at me, thinking this is all a funny joke. Yay. Well...it's back to readjusting meds...to trick my brain again.
Thanks...you are very sweet. :)Jay
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