Posted by Michael83 on March 12, 2007, at 21:52:50
In reply to Re: Life is categorically unfair, posted by Kath on March 12, 2007, at 18:53:00
Hi Kath, thanks for the response.
"Sometimes I sort of 'cry out' - ENOUGH!!!!!!!!!"
That's how I felt when I wrote that post. I was just thinking, "Come on already! Does life really have to be like this?"
"Sorry for your pain Michael. Are you in contact with her currently? It sounds like you might be. If so, I think that would make it VERY hard for you to sort of accept & 'move on'. I can understand if you don't WANT to move on. I didn't when my ex was breaking up with me. I was grasping on - holding on to the relationship even though it was over. It's very hard to let go."
She's more of my friend. I cannot say I'm out to persue her as a love interest, she's just my best friend and we talk a lot (over the internet because she's so far away). We always have gotten along well. We have a great friendship.
"Have you ever thought of doing any therapy about this? It's causing you so much pain, I just wondered."
No. I have bigger issues (my fear of death). This is small fries compared. I was just looking for a place to vent last night. It bothers me and I think about this often, but not too often. I'd say it's more causing me frustration than anything.
I'm someone strives for justice in everything and I feel like she deserves better. Good people are often victimized. I just need to wait it out, and maybe she'll come around, or he'll become a better person, and everything will be better. =)
Thanks.
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