Posted by karen_kay on February 23, 2007, at 11:50:54
In reply to Ever been 'dumped' because of your illness?, posted by Crazy Horse on February 23, 2007, at 11:20:13
my seven year before the itch (make sense? i was in a relationship for nearly about, i think it was 7 years, then got the itch... no, let me take that back, i had the itch well before the seven year mark, but we broke up at teh 7 year mark) anywhooooo......
i lost my train of thought.. i was really sick, going through a whole lot while with him. he was less than helpful. but, he didn't understand depression at all either. he'd have a beer when sad and everythign was groovy (lucky hippie nerd!) but, when i made the most improvements, we decided to break it off. i was the one who started the whole 'let's end this misery' conversation. so, it was kinda the opposite. i always felt guilty that he put up with so much from me (gee golly (gee golly??? how bout good god?) he put up with tons of crap) and then i started the process of leaving him. and boy was i horrible to him.
so, i always kinda felt the opposite way. he aided in helpig support me financially so i could get better (well, sort of), then, i got better (well, sort of again) and i dumped him (well, sort of).
well, disregard this (well, sort of).
:)
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