Posted by Meri-Tuuli on January 11, 2007, at 15:31:36
In reply to Re: Deneb, posted by one woman cine on January 11, 2007, at 15:01:51
Deneb, honey, I think you make some pretty drastic and wholly unhelpful conclusions about yourself.
You have gone from 1) skipping a class to 2) concluding that you're a horrible person for skipping a class.
Which is not very logical is it? I mean, if a friend skipped a class, you would not conclude that they are a horrible person, would you? No, you wouldn't. You are not a horrible person for skipping a class, failing a class, being on academic probation or ODing as a result of these things.
I really think you need to try to and look at your thought patterns, Deneb. As people have pointed out, skipping class is not a big deal, so you need to examine why it is such a big deal to you. ODing over a skipped class, is, in my opinion, a rather extreme method of coping, and not a particulary healthy one at that.
Perhaps you could start to post here some of your thought patterns related to your skipped class and ODing behavour (and other areas of college life like the failed classes etc), instead of going down the ODing route. We could help you make better thought patterns and so you don't end up ODing over a skipped class.
Have you heard of the boy who cried sheep?
poster:Meri-Tuuli
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