Posted by Kath on November 10, 2006, at 15:43:22
In reply to Losing it..how it is...some other thoughts???, posted by Jay on November 1, 2006, at 7:23:39
Oh Jay
I'm sorry - I put a post to you on a previous 'thread' before I saw this.
WELL. You sound like you're taking this from a place of strength. I'm sorry this has happened. I haven't 'dated' for about 14 years. Do people these days be open & actually TALK about things?
I hope you're able to bring some of the things you've mentioned in this post - up with her in your conversations with her.
I think it would be great if we humans could be OPEN in our relationships with each other. Why is it so hard? Even with my husband there are things that I have to 'work myself up to' talking about. And yeah, there are probably things I DON'T bring up! sigh.
I hope you ask her what's up. Her behaviour to you has changed & I think you deserve to know why.
I send you hugs, Kath
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