Posted by TexasChic on July 14, 2006, at 11:03:55
In reply to Re: The queen of winge, posted by Slinky on July 13, 2006, at 13:11:55
> A very dear friend who I've been very fond of for many years was brutily murdered trying to save someone else life, I feel so sad then so angry..he was the nicest and inspiring man who accepted someone for who they were. Even though I hadn't seen him for ages- I kept away because I felt like I was falling in love and I wasn't his type- it's really hit me emotionally he didn't deserve to die the way he did.
Oh my God! That's horrible! But being the kind of person he was, maybe he would like the fact that he went out trying to help someone else. I don't know if that's comforting or not, but it was the first thing that occured to me when I read this. It sounds like he was a very special and inspiring man.
> I really only have one friend--boyfriend ( I'm a loner because I don't get out much ) haven't seen him for months cause he's been ill with cancer and I've truely supported him, phoned him almost daily asking how he is.
That's a very difficult thing to deal with. Is it a curable kind? I hope that it is and he's doing well.
I don't really have any friends either. Partly out of driving them away with my mental issues, and partly from keeping myself isolated. So you're not alone in being alone. (Isn't that a lyric from some song?)
> I find it hard to help others here..sorry...I just need some kind of outlet...I do read others posts and empathise but can't think of anything to say ,my brains all mashed up.
Don't worry about that! This place is all about support. I've noticed alot of people say they feel they don't support others enough. But its always people who make me think, 'Really? I've never would have thought that about them.' I think its just that people like us are so sensitive to the feelings of other's that we feel a bigger responsibility to help than most people would.
You have enough going on to make anyone feel like their brains are mashed up! So don't try to put more on your shoulders. And keep venting so we'll know you're okay.
-T
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