Posted by alesta on January 17, 2006, at 18:36:40
well, my goal to try and sincerely love everyone is proving very challenging...perhaps i'm crazy to try..i mean..i may sincerely care about people at the moment that i'm speaking to them, but only have lasting concern for a handful of people, if that. perhaps that's all one can ask to be...loving to ppl while interacting with them...anyway. this is boring reading i'm sure.
hope i have at least touched some lives in my 'moments' of compassion,
love, ...uh, ok, take care, rather,:-)
alestap.s. i do, however, stand by the concept that ppl have no business having close friends of the opposite sex when in a committed relationship...sorry, no one is going to change my mind on that or tell me it's 'controlling'...i stand by that view firmly. and all you guys and gals are more than welcome to yours. i believe their are articles on emotional infidelity on the net if anyone's curious about this topic...and yes, loving others can take away from loving one's spouse...your mind can be on someone else, rather than your spouse (romantic feelings focused elsewhere). which is not fair to the spouse. sorry to hound this topic. i'm done with it. i promise. :)
(i am currently pms-ing and experiencing benadryl-induced irritability...hope it isn't reflected here...don't think so but had to put a warning label.:))
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