Posted by gee on January 12, 2006, at 15:22:53
The other night a good friend had a breakdown and went down to her room and sat with her, and helped her, and got her RA. My friend was really at times because she wanted me to leave so she could kill herself. But I stayed.
Now, she's saying that this other person has helped her so much, and she can't thank her enough and she's always saying what a great friend this other person is. Does she not realize what I did? I may not go down to her room everynight, but we talked almost every night.
Her "episode" has made some really unwanted feelings come back, and it hasn't been an easy week. I'm mad that she doesn't seem to care that I've been there for her. Is it wrong that I want her to know I'm trying to help her through her tough time? If she's gonna come out and say how much her other friend means to her, then why does she come to me? Was I at the time, just the best she could get?
poster:gee
thread:598382
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