Posted by Monkeyoga on October 23, 2005, at 15:27:35
In reply to Hey there! » Monkeyoga, posted by wildcard on October 23, 2005, at 14:24:58
> I know you're torn up inside over this,
You got that right.
> but you never mentioned what she has had to say re: you and the boyfriend. Have ya'll ever *crossed* the friendship line? Does the BF know about you? How long have you known this lady? I know it's a lot of questions, but it would help me offer you my input.
>I met her maybe six months ago. BF probably knows I exist, and that I'm a friend, which is pretty much where things stand (I obsess, therefore I am?), which answers the other question -- no lines have been crossed. At this point, I just want to hang out with her, and as far as I can tell, that's the way she sees it. I'm not in love with her, nor do I even know if we are compatible (although I suspect yes). What she says about BF is the following: (1) "We're pretty tight," (2) the only thing that might break them up -- if anything -- is his disapproving mother (it's a religion/ethnicity thing -- he Indian, she white). Since I've known her, she has flown out to see him at least twice, and he at least once. Even I can decode these signals -- she is in no hurry to leave him.
> I am glad you're here w/ us. This is a great place for support and education from some of the most wonderful people.
Thanks, I really appreciate the support!
> Until I hear back from ya, take care~abbey
-TYM
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