Posted by rainbowbrite on October 20, 2005, at 14:44:48
In reply to I need some input on this....PLEASE ANYBODY!, posted by Chrispy_85 on October 20, 2005, at 13:46:48
Im sorry about your mom, that sounds awful. I understand the guilt, guilt is horrible but you can't let it run yourlife. that is what you need to believe to be able to get on with your life.
Maybe start talking about living on your own first. then feel her out. Tell her you are excited about the idea of being responsible for yourself etc. Say it will be a good learning experience etc. But then also suggest that you find a place close by to her, that way you can still see her often. Emphasize the importance of your relationship with her (if it seems appropritae) Make her feel special while preparing her.
Hope that was of some help.
Good luck!
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