Posted by crazy teresa on October 16, 2005, at 8:38:51
In reply to Re: single people, I need some answers! Okay, please? » crazy teresa, posted by happyflower on October 15, 2005, at 22:38:54
It takes two to have a marriage. I admire you're staying and trying to work things out, but if he's not even willing to try...
He's messed around once and has not dealt with the situation. Now he met someone at a convention... Do or die time, IMO-- either he tries to make things work or he's out.
But adding another person to the situation would not be good. I wouldn't want to explain to my kids someday I had been unfaithful to their father. Get your divorce first. Then prince charming can come tearing into your life without your involving guilt.
Besides, who would have the energy to have two men in her life?
Another thought-- send yourself (and NEVER, EVER admit you sent it yourself) a bouquet of flowers with a card that says, "I saw you at the gym today. You're beautiful"! (Not a total lie, since I'm sure the gym had mirrors, LOL!)
Maybe this would kick your husband in the gut enough to realize what he is missing and motivate him to begin fixing things between the two of you.
crazy t
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