Posted by Tamar on October 2, 2005, at 19:26:44
In reply to Re: me and the bobster » sleepygirl, posted by Deneb on September 30, 2005, at 0:45:58
> I just wish...I wish he would talk with us and be our friend. He talked a lot more in the past. *Sigh* I feel like I love Dr. Bob (not in a romantic way, more like how I love my hamster). I think to myself, "Ahh, I love Dr. Bob" and then I feel comforted.
I think it’s good that you love Dr Bob. And that it brings you comfort. I guess the really hard thing is that he’s not as forthcoming as you’d like.
Do you think perhaps this ties in with the questions you had about transference? Perhaps Dr Bob is a positive male influence in your life and your love for him is a very important love for a man who cares about you. I got the impression that you don’t know a lot of men and aren’t very interested in men, and yet I think it’s healthy to feel love for some men sometimes…
But probably therapy is the best way to explore this kind of stuff. Can your p-doc recommend someone for therapy?
Tamar
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