Posted by lynn970 on October 1, 2005, at 7:27:18
In reply to Re: a friend blowing me off b/c I told her... » lynn970, posted by JenStar on October 1, 2005, at 0:01:16
> I'm afraid to tell her about meds/theraphy/issues b/c she DOES tell other people. And since we have some work friends in common, I just don't want them getting that information.
If you are afraid to tell her everything then dont. Dont feel guilty about it either. If she continues to act that way, then she is the one with the problem (I am not trying to be mean to her). I hope that she gets over it soon. You are not responsible for the way she is acting. You are not responsible for her happiness.I am sorry that I am going off like this. It is just that my mom used to try to control me by giving me the "cold shoulder" to get what she wanted from me.
Your friend needs to step out of her own little world.
Someone once told me "It is better to have 1 or 2
good friends that are "real" friends, than a dozen friends who dont really care."Love ya lots,
Lynn
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