Posted by Deneb on August 27, 2005, at 9:56:30
In reply to Please be sensitive ***Trigger***, posted by 10derHeart on August 27, 2005, at 1:25:21
> Suicide is NOT funny to pdocs, other T's, family and friends of those who attempt or complete, or for those fighting those urges all the time. Laughing, joking, or otherwise making light of it in any way just has no place here.
I'm sorry. I didn't realize I was joking about suicide. I was just trying to be lighthearted. For some reason I still don't always think that suicide is a serious thing. Sigh, I guess I still don't get it.
> I know you struggle sometimes at understanding what's okay to post or not, especially around this subject. I'm sure you didn't even think when you typed *tee-hee,* that's why I'm pointing it out. I know you don't have bad intentions. But you have to be careful and thoughtful.
I remembered to put in *Trigger* because I mentioned the word "suicide". I learned that that word is triggering for some people. I didn't realize that my entire post was bad. :-(
> But even I can't remain silent when a poster appears to be giggling about the horrible situation of pdocs who may have had patients kill themselves.
I'm sorry I don't always see suicide as a serious thing.
> Also, just say Dr. Bob had experienced this tragedy...are you thinking about his feelings when you write your posts? That's a really important thing to work on doing..imagining how the reader will feel.I did consider his feelings. :-( I thought he might be amused. Are you saying he is likely to be upset when patients kill themselves? Shouldn't p-docs be used to that sort of thing? Or am I being insensitive again? :-( I'm sorry.
> I'm trying to help, Deneb.
I know. I know I'm not a normal person. :-(
Deneb
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