Posted by woolav on June 30, 2005, at 14:04:16
Hello. I dont know whats going on.... my husband has recently started hanging out with this guy he knows from work and he has stayed out late about 3 times now with this person and comes home drunk. Then, last night, he didnt call or come home at all. I woke at 3am, freaked bc he wasnt home and first off called the 2 local hospital, not there. Then drove to where he parks his work van. Found the van and his car. So I knew he was with someone else. I waited there to see who would drop him off, but he called me at 5:45am and said he was drunk and had fallen asleep at the guys house. (never once calling me to say he was even out drinking that night) we have been married only a year and he just started this behavior. He then tells me today how sorry he is and he wont do it again and that he loves me..
How do u love someone, yet show them so much disrespect for my feelings? I told him to think about why he did (does) this stuff, bc perhaps he doesnt want to be married? I dont know what else to tell him..
any advise?
S
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thread:521588
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