Posted by woolav on April 15, 2005, at 9:25:20
In reply to Re: Am I a horrible person?????, posted by PM80 on April 14, 2005, at 15:17:38
Well, I think you are right. I just need to find out what it is..I dont hate the boy, but I do feel like my husband throughs responsibility on me and I dont like it. Then when I get frustrated, my husb makes comments like "I know you dont like kids" and tries to make me feel guilty. I guess some of it is also, when he is with us, our house is a complete wreck. Toys and stuff everywhere. And that makes me nervous to see the complete disorganization...I know kids are like that, but again, I am used to a teen. (only her room stays messy, but I dont see it) lol.. Its just like a big stress thing for me. I dont like having the responsibility of watching him and i dont like not being able to do what I want. I guess I will bring this up eventually w/ my T..Another thing is that bc my husb doesnt see his son as much as he would like. He lets him get away with alot and doesnt disapline that much. And, he spends a fortune on toys for him. which we really dont have the money for. Now, when the boy comes, everyday he is like "did you buy me a toy daddy?" and he does!!! Im working on trying to remind myself that this is a child, and its not his fault. anyway...
thanks for reading.
S
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