Posted by Corafree on April 7, 2005, at 11:25:44
In reply to Re: #2, posted by anastasia56 on April 6, 2005, at 23:06:53
Yeah, prob' a few as long as it is not in my name.
There is a man no one in my fam' would want me to ask to spend time with me there.
I would not be able to sell it, of course.
I will lose a portion of my mother's inheritance put into a large business she put together where all the rest of my family live/work.
It is all a bit upsetting because my father has only been gone a bit over a yr - this business was all anyone talked about as he passed from his wonderful life to another. I feel a lot of anger pain towards my there, for that reason. I do know tho' that he mentioned to a friend that he would like to leave everything he had to his one child who knew him best; his daughter, me. No one believed this was ever said (only told a couple - think I was in shock when did it).
Still the irreverance shown his beautiful life angers me.
I almost want to say take everything to family who seem to have become vultures, take everything because Dad and I don't need anything from any of you.
The only home I had, my Dad's in midwest, is now my sister-in-law's and my brothers.
It hurt that my Mo didn't see how I was the only one w/o a home.
She is building herself a new home on the ground she was born and needs liquidity from this condo for her new home.
I saw all but one or two members of what I thought was a good and caring family become horribly selfish, and carry on as if he had not given so much to them.
It is difficult.
I'm going over to manufactured home right now to get keys from the realtor my Mo had given them to. Will give her a set to keep also.
If I could be a stronger person ... but besides emotional illness, I have more than one chronic physical illnesses! Dang! Otherwise, I'd walk away from everything they tarnished!
Sorry, rambling again. cf
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