Posted by Spriggy on April 5, 2005, at 12:22:18
In reply to Re: why would i behave this way?????, posted by justyourlaugh on April 5, 2005, at 12:14:58
Is it possible that it's that "new, fuzzy," feeling you are attracted to and once you settle into the routine of marriage, you don't like the "sameness?"
I would encourage you to search DEEP as to why you do this becuase I would hate to see you ruin your marriage, especially since you have such a good man that loves you.
I think EVERY woman likes to feel attractive and know she is pretty/wanted/sexy.. That is normal but when we go outside of the marriage looking for it, it leads to trouble.
Contentment really is a beautiful place to be. It's sometimes hard to find (trust me, I know!) but once you get there, you would never want to leave it.
At least you are searching for answers as to why you have done this and hopefully now healing can begin.
poster:Spriggy
thread:480157
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