Posted by pinkeye on March 31, 2005, at 18:32:54
In reply to Re: tis been awhile » Dinah, posted by Tamar on March 31, 2005, at 18:09:45
Yeah, I can relate to that. The emotional attachment and fantasies did feel like an affair. And I couldn't forgive myself for a long time. But then I ended up forgiving myself and even accepting that it is normal.
My husband knows too - but not in a direct way, but I am pretty sure he knows. And nowadays he seems to understand it also. But we don't talk about it.. but I have been trying to educate him whenver possible of the attachment people tend to feel towards their therapists, and I think he realizes that was what I wanted.
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