Posted by Gabbi-x-2 on March 27, 2005, at 15:03:15
In reply to Re: ???????? » Gabbi-x-2, posted by alexandra_k on March 27, 2005, at 14:43:00
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> I wasn't trying to give reasons why you shouldn't. I was trying to give reasons why you didn't have to feel that way. There is a difference...I think after several attempts at explaining and still being questioned, it feels more to me like an attempt to change my feelings rather than simply an alternate viewpoint being offered for me to ponder.
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>> >I realize you're concerned about Dr. Bob, but if people get angry.. they get angry, it happens sometimes, and sometimes that's the way people learn things, doctors included.
> I am sorry.
> I didn't mean to be invalidating.
> Sometimes I don't put the thought into posts that I probably should.I don't think you need to be sorry, I'm just saying how it comes across to me.
> By the way
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> >sometimes that's the way people learn things, doctors included
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> So you think he shouldn't do things / make decisions that may result in people feeling hurt?
>No, not at all, that would be impossible anyway.
I'm saying that in this case, for example, the angry reactions might make him see something he didn't before, and give him an increased understanding of how people are likely to feel in another situation.
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