Posted by 64bowtie on February 2, 2005, at 11:29:44
In reply to Re: anybody understand? I do, posted by Rainee on February 2, 2005, at 9:16:40
Rainee,
You said: > Hi there, thanks for the message. But I didn't understand it. I'm sorry. could you help me see the me part in it? >
I say: <<< It’s not polite for me to be seen as pointing fingers, so I try to make an example out of myself in hopes that how I did it will resonate with y’alls. That said, my experience tells me that you still think of yourself as an accumulation of all your actions; you are what you’ve done. This can lead us to disappointment, depression and anxiety all by itself.
It’s a much quicker process right straight to depression and anxiety if ‘we are (mostly) what we think other people see us as’. We are who we are no matter what any other person thinks or says. ...and that's always a good thing. Don't ever let your history blackmail you in any way. Just do the best you can one day at a time.
Please reread my previous post and see if it makes more sense yet. If not, please give me another chance to explain.
Rod
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