Posted by alexandra_k on January 21, 2005, at 21:35:32
In reply to Re: More ... Susan47 Jay » jay, posted by Susan47 on January 21, 2005, at 0:12:23
I think some people approach meeting someone (from newspapers off the internet etc) as they would approach applying for a job or something.
The hard sell 'I am the best person for the job'. The 'I never get depressed or feel sad' type BS that ya *say* but isn't reallly true of anyone.
That being said it is nice to have fun
and have stuff in common that you find fun
and not wallow too much in the miserable state of the world.Not on the first couple of dates anyway :-)
But, yeah, some people are probably just trying the hard sell.
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