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Yes I do understand ((((Susan)))))

Posted by Tootercat on January 19, 2005, at 0:55:31

In reply to Re: It needs to End, Soon. » tootercat, posted by Susan47 on January 18, 2005, at 22:38:30

Sometimes just asking for the willingness and hope is all we can do. Keep it simple and don't fight what you're feeling...the "easiest way around something is THROUGH it" You may get burned or scratched or dinged up a little but you can heal. Avoidance creates more stress in the long run.....you are worth fighting for sweetie and I don't even know ya. But I can understand your pain. (Last year at this time I wanted to be anywhere but in my body. It felt like I was looking down on a shell that used to be me.) What it was was a time of change and transition. Here's another thing....let your friends/family (if they are "safe")help you. Whether just to listen or give you a hug. When you tell yourself that you don't want to be a burden don't listen. YOU may be helping THEM. People also need to feel NEEDED and it may be a way for them to give back what they have received from someone else (might have even been from you)

Hugs,

Pam

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