Posted by Snoozin on January 18, 2005, at 13:39:46
In reply to Re: Jay -- Long » Snoozin, posted by jay on January 18, 2005, at 13:32:01
> Hmmmmm...Did you find someone from your own living area..like city or whatever? Or somewhere close by? Or was it long-distance?
>
> Thanks,
> Jay
<<Well, I was looking in my area. Done the long-distance thing and don't like it so much. Met several guys who were really nice, but we just didn't click. I felt like there was something wrong with me (too picky) cuz I didn't go goo goo over these really nice guys. Well, it finally *did* click with a guy from Massachusetts (I'm near DC), so I did try that because I really liked him. Ended in disaster the weekend we met in real life. Now this new guy lives about 45 minutes away from me.So I guess I truly clicked with 2 out of 200. Rough odds, but attainable ones. :-)
Susan
P.S. One of the limiting things I was doing was looking for guys without kids. Don't have any myself and didn't know how to *date* or deal with a guy who did. This new guy has several, and it's not a problem (yet). It's easier than I thought. So I relaxed my *standards* a little bit, and found a really cool guy.
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