Posted by 64bowtie on January 6, 2005, at 16:44:50
In reply to Re: Online dating for dummies..... » Gabbix2, posted by jay on January 5, 2005, at 8:18:07
...have confessed to the group that in the past, they had "waxed-predatory"... I suggest that gals aren't that dumb as to be tittilated by gorgeosity! Gals report being tired of the abuse from gorgeous and ugly guys both... They just want the abuse to stop!
When I got "my helmet back on straight" so I wasn't blinded by the chinstrap hanging in my face, I had some nice times with online dating experiences. I had gone through 18 months of self imposed celabacy, including no dinners and movies "safe" dating before going back to the dating scene after the end of my second sad/bad marriage. So the nice experiences are precious memories.
Along the way I've also had a few that started out good and went bad. If they just wouldn't let the "ogre" ex-boyfriend/ex-hubby come back and "SLEEP ON THE COUCH!"! Sure!!!! (Those always start out good and turn out bad...)
Abuse is not conflict resolution! It's abuse!
Rod
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