Posted by lostforwards on December 9, 2004, at 11:35:29
In reply to arrgyl., posted by lostforwards on December 9, 2004, at 11:28:20
BTW: I tried to be supportive but it really got annoying, both times we went out. She'd never speak up, she'd just absorb, and when she did talk about something it was her depression and so from the start I assumed this care-taker role and you know what, I think that led to trouble. That was all she'd talk about though the first time we went out. This guy luke who'd always threaten her and tell her she was an ex-convict sometimes. Seriously.. An ex-convict? he had her convinced she was an ex-convict? Apparently he said he'd make her life a living hell. That's what she told me about him. She also said that he'd always compete with her in HS... etc etc. A bunch of stuff like that. Depressing stuff. I don't know. The only fun stuff we did at the begining was playing an abandoned factory. The factory was really cool and a lot of fun. Of course, we didn't do much talking then.
I remember one time my dad came inside the house. We said hi to him, he didn't really say anything AND YOU KNOW WHAT HAPPENED NEXT!!? She started crying on my shoulder. she was talking about how she thought my parents would hate her.
It was always stuff like this. Always negative stuff and I'd always be trying to be supportive.
That's the situation we were in for months. Then, out of nowhere she got upset, my parents were on a vacation I was with them, and I got the email. I was like what?? I didn't? huh? Why so upset? It drove me stinking mad.What surprized me the most was how easily she could go from complaining at lot to me to not feeling a thing at all. It was really weird.
I realize I'm just ranting. Ahhh. It just drives me mad that's all. I spent a lot of time trying to console her.
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